I gave the standard crap answer that you deserved , you did exactly what i despise the most in these sort of conversations . There are no right answers with people like you , if i call a woman pretty - i am objectifying her , if i call her ugly - i am rude and judgemental . If i say the women i know would either laugh at that advert or just dismiss it without another thought , that wouldn`t make you happy either . The simple fact is that there is no offence if you are intelligent enough to see through it , if you cant then good luck with life .Yes. I doubt they are offended by one chocolate advert. It's when one chocolate advert becomes many adverts and the stereotype gets reinforced that it becomes problematic. I hope we've moved away from those times and don't go back.
I intrigued by the fact that your job is to find women attractive. What do you do? Are you in the pornographic industry? ;-)