:congratulations pal, Take heed,this is something i was advised on my first child.
NEVER LISTEN TO YOUR MOTHER OR MOTHER IN LAW, they both are on the same team, that team have recently had a meeting and decided as capable as you are, you have no idea what you are doing when it comes to caring for a baby. good luck lol best wishes
I never really wanted kids but went along with the wife as she wanted them. We had twins 15 months ago and its the best thing that has ever happened to me !! Life isnt over it has just got better, but be patient.