You have to have real player to listen to bbc commentary - if you put your e-mail here I can try and send it to you - although it is 4 mb (zipped) so maybe too big - we can try!
I'm not sure. I just clicked on the link, it opened up a mini window, and then after crashing a couple of times it started playing. I'm not sure if I've got Realplayer or if it needs it to work, as I'm on my old man's PC and don't know what he's got installed. I have heard that if you're on a 56 k modem the commentary might be a bit stop-start.
on the main link you dont need real player but it does get a bit patchy, if you have real player you can go to The Listen using Stand alone only, its free to download try at half time or try www.talksport.co.uk/listen