hello

[Yorkie]

That's all that really needed saying!

And the next time I see you lurking by the tea van I will not chat politely.

Misquoting me like that

 

[Everest]

Sorry, couldn't resist. (sulks away to hide head in shame)

 

[Lush]

Hello Kirsty. If you're feeling overwhelmed by the laddish banter, I suggest that you join the DAFT Bints. It's a kind of Web-protection for girls.

Send me a personal message - click on my name - and i'll tell you more!

 

[Brighton Breezy]

Welcome to the site Kirsty, hope you like it on here and dont get put off by the ladish behaviour of some posters..everyone really is welcome.

 

[Dunkstar]

Oh it's on!

 

[Jimbo]

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[Sam]

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interesting second post jimbo!

 

[Beach Hut]

Hello Kirsty,

Welcome to the house of of fun

 

[perth seagull]

Kirsty before you carry on posting I must remind you that it is compulsory for new posters to post a picture of themselves for other viewers.

 

[Harold]

Yeah, and the theme this week is swimwear isn't it ?

 

[Italiaseagull]

Hello Kirsty


Do you spit or swallow on a first date?


















Only kidding

 

[Brixtaan]

Well hello there Kirsty, i......

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I LOVE YOU






sh!t,blurted it out too soon again.

 

[Marshy]

Welcome Kirsty, have a good time.

 

[the right footed denilson]

KIRSTY- is your PM box full yet

 

[tedebear]

Well hello there Kirsty, i......

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erm...............

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I LOVE YOU

sh!t,blurted it out too soon again.

deary me - sounds like a case of click happy to me - take your mouse dunk it in a cup of cold tea and try again tomorrow...possible solution for other parts of your anatomy too...

 

[Bald Gull]

Kirsty, it is a well-known NSC ritual that every new member must put a photo of themselves on here.

You don't seem to have done this yet.....

 

[Italiaseagull]

Originally posted by Brixtaan
sh!t,blurted it out too soon again.

This might be off interest to you Brixtaan

Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual problems. The condition is most often described as being an inability to delay ejaculation to a point when it is mutually desirable for both partners. The definition of when ejaculation is premature is subjective. While some men have trouble controlling their orgasm upon entry, others consider 5-10 minutes of copulation too little time. How long a man is able to last is not the important factor in diagnosing premature ejaculation. The crucial issue is if a man is satisfied with the length of coitus.

How is premature ejaculation caused?

Most men have experienced this problem at some time in their life. Premature ejaculation was once thought to be caused by drugs or certain infections such as urethritis, but popular wisdom suggests it is more psychological in nature. The exact cause of the condition, however, still remains a mystery.

Premature ejaculation often occurs during the first experiences with sex, and in this case is most commonly attributed to anxiety. The majority of men gradually learn to control their orgasm, and have no lasting effect. Some men will develop a longer-term anxiety toward sex, which can cause a prolonged experience with premature ejaculation.

Sexual behavior is also a factor. The longer the period since last ejaculating, the quicker young men typically reach orgasm. Younger men tend to ejaculate more quickly than older men, as experience seems to be associated with ejaculatory control.

You Can Last Longer

We provide an overview of techniques for overcoming premature ejaculation below. If you would like a more detailed discussion, we suggest You Can Last Longer (also available in DVD). This video will help to show you and your partner how to overcome premature ejaculation.

What can I do to delay ejaculation?

Masters and Johnson method

The best way to fighting premature ejaculation is learning how to identify and control the sensations leading up to orgasm. The Masters and Johnson method does just that. The Masters and Johnson method requires a great deal of patience and practice, but is very effective. Follow the steps below.

You may want to start with masturbation. Begin by bringing yourself to a point relatively close to climax, and stop, allowing yourself to relax before starting again. Each time you do this, bring yourself closer and closer to orgasm until you cannot control it any longer. You may want to practice with the aid of a lubricant. We recommend trying Astroglide. Repeating this procedure a number of times on different occasions will help you learn where your point of climax is. Once you have an idea about your "point of no return" you should be able to direct stimulation from your partner leading up to orgasm. The best way to practice this method is with a caring lover, although you can try to prepare by yourself. With your partner, engage in non-coital stimulation (like masturbation or oral sex) and gradually allow yourself to reach that point just before ejaculation. At that point, signal your partner to stop (often this is done with a light squeeze or sound) and allow yourself to partially lose your erection. Repeat these steps several times to get the hang of it. You should practice these steps for several days before you attempt intercourse. Once you are ready to try intercourse, lay on your back and direct your partner to slowly allow you to penetrate. As soon as you feel that you are about to climax, signal to your partner or give a gentle push upward. Relax for a bit, then begin again. You should soon be able to control your ejaculation and enjoy having sex.

Although the method is extremely effective, it could take weeks before you get it just right. Remember, be patient and try not to put too much pressure on the situation. If you don’t get it the first time, shrug it off and remember that you are working towards something that takes time. If you still have trouble, don’t hesitate to contact a sex therapist for guidance.

Squeeze technique

The squeeze technique is really just a variation of the Masters and Johnson method, except that the assisting partner squeezes the tip or base of the penis just before the point of climax to essentially cancel the orgasm. The "squeeze" forces blood out of the penis and reduces the erection. You may want to use the squeeze technique if the Masters and Johnson method alone is not working.

Other techniques

Desensitizing creams are products which purport to lessen the sensations felt by men during intercourse so that they can last longer. The limitation that many men feel these creams have is that they make intercourse less pleasurable by decreasing stimulation. Pleasure Balm is a good mild desensitizing cream that only requires a small amount to be applied.

Masturbation is a technique used by many young men to increase their level of control. It is thought that masturbation before sexual activity will lessen the amount of desire a man feels thereby increasing control. This technique is not very effective, however, as level of arousal is only part of what contributes to the condition.

Condoms are an effective means of reducing the amount of stimulation experienced during sex. Some men find that a condom helps them prevent premature ejaculation by lowering their arousal. If one condom does not decrease the stimulation enough, then put on one more. Condoms provide excellent protection against STDs and pregnancy, so they’re certainly worth a try.

Sexual positions can affect a man's ability to control his ejaculation. The typical "missionary" position (on top of your partner) is not the best position while attempting to control ejaculation. Try laying on your back, allowing the partner to control copulation. In this position you are more relaxed, and can guide your partner easily.

 

[Man of Harveys]

As an old-timer on this board (ignore the post-count, it lies), I have two points to say:

Point 1. Nothing, not a controversial game or a new signing gets people posting more than the sudden appearance of a new, seemingly-friendly member of the fairer gender.

Point 2. Hi Kirsty! How's it going/welcome on board/let's have a pic then (etc etc)

 

[Guinness Boy]

Hi Kirsty. I'm Tim & I'm morally bankrupt, so keep clear

He is you know. Morally bankrupt and 12000 miles away though

 

[Brixtaan]

thanks Italia and Tedebear.



*anxiously mopping area around computer*