Gritt23
New member
Seriously, the problem is that clubs don't have much freedom, as they are dictated by what the FA tells them, and IMHO it's wrong. Last spring / summer, my son (then 7) wanted to join his mates at the local team, and I went along with it.
The football season in the age groups was over, so it went quite well as it was training for an hour on a Saturday morning, with a few skills, and a little game. Then they starting asking me about the following season, and I was keen for him to join up, BUT, I was told,
"Well, we are over sub-scribed for next seasons squad, so we'll be selecting the squad over the next few weeks."
Basically, it's 7-a-side football, but the FA limits clubs to squads of 10 for games, and maximum 12 for squads (or similar, not 100% sure of those numbers). So that means they only have 2 players they can afford to have missing each week or they are short on players. That meant they were quizzing me about how "committed" my son would be to training and playing all of next season, because they can't afford to give a spot to a kid who drops out when it gets cold .... blah, blah blah.
At 7, you can't be sure your boy won't change his mind 3 times on the car journey, let alone guarantee he'll train Saturdays and play Sundays for the next YEAR! I told them as much, and I think my honesty did him no favours, and he wasn't "selected". I was allowed to bring him to training though as a "non-squad member"!
Well, he soon lost interest in that as every week at training all the other kids were talking about last weeks game, and the next days game. As a result, he doesn't play football for a local club, and I don't think he's missing out.
To make it so formal - and the training was often defenders vs attackers, the kids had been pigeon-holed already! - just turned us off it. He loves a kick-around in the park with me or his mates, but signing up for a team can wait a few years thanks.
The football season in the age groups was over, so it went quite well as it was training for an hour on a Saturday morning, with a few skills, and a little game. Then they starting asking me about the following season, and I was keen for him to join up, BUT, I was told,
"Well, we are over sub-scribed for next seasons squad, so we'll be selecting the squad over the next few weeks."
Basically, it's 7-a-side football, but the FA limits clubs to squads of 10 for games, and maximum 12 for squads (or similar, not 100% sure of those numbers). So that means they only have 2 players they can afford to have missing each week or they are short on players. That meant they were quizzing me about how "committed" my son would be to training and playing all of next season, because they can't afford to give a spot to a kid who drops out when it gets cold .... blah, blah blah.
At 7, you can't be sure your boy won't change his mind 3 times on the car journey, let alone guarantee he'll train Saturdays and play Sundays for the next YEAR! I told them as much, and I think my honesty did him no favours, and he wasn't "selected". I was allowed to bring him to training though as a "non-squad member"!
Well, he soon lost interest in that as every week at training all the other kids were talking about last weeks game, and the next days game. As a result, he doesn't play football for a local club, and I don't think he's missing out.
To make it so formal - and the training was often defenders vs attackers, the kids had been pigeon-holed already! - just turned us off it. He loves a kick-around in the park with me or his mates, but signing up for a team can wait a few years thanks.