1. Make sure everyone is drunk
2. Don't be too rude about the bride (although I was - didn't like her very much at all, they're now divorced)
3. Don't drink beforehand
Ive used this one twice now and both times it's got the biggest laugh. It involves giving marital advice to the bride & groom.
Secondly, Married Life Can Be Compared To Football ... so, Be Fully Committed Every Week And Make Sure You Score Every Saturday. Make sure you change ends at half time and don’t put your tackle in too hard coz it could bloody hurt!
However, "Enter Brides Name" Assures Me That Playing Away From Home Could Result In A Serious Groin Injury, And Is Definitely The Quickest Way Onto The Transfer List.
Drink as much as you possibly can before your turn.
Make sure you use any embarrassing stories you have about the groom.
Compliment the bride on how good she looks, but then back it up by saying how rough she normally looks. Make reference to her mother at this point if you want.
Thank the bridesmaids, but then make a lewd comment about thanking the chief bridesmaid properly later.
Propose a toast to the happy couple, then use the wrong names.
Head for the bar.
Make sure you apologise for the fact that there are now two more Mother-in-Laws in the world.
This went down well at the weeding I went to on Saturday:
"<bride's name> has organised the wedding with her customery attention to detail. I have been obeying her instructions with a mixture of duty and fear but I had to draw the line this morning, when he asked me to rub vaseline on <groom's name's> ring"
It gives me the greatest of pleasure....but we are not here to talk about that...
Boom Boom
Or man goes to the doctors...says..." Doctor, I keep getting these terrible headaches" Doctor says, can i ask you a personal question, " Yes " replies the man...." Do you masterbate?"... Yes says the man......." Great isn't it!!!"
The reality is that if you are not comfortable and confident with telling gags don't attempt them. Alternatively just be sincere and it's often more appreciated than jokes told badly that fall flat on their arse either due to poor delivery or content.
If you want to take the gag route the internet is full of sites with nice little one liners and and sayings.
Always remember the audience is on your side and most will be half cut.
The old
You'll be pleased to know "grooms name" slept llike a baby last night, he woke up every hour crying for his mummy
always goes down well.
Think the idea is to be funny without insulting, I've been a best man 3 times now, and the speech has always gone down well, sorry to brag but one of them I had about 4 people come up to me saying it was the best they'd heard, smug bastard
Thing is everyone will be on your side anyway, people would of had a couple of drinks, and been warmed up by the other speeches beforehand.
Another one was I read one card out last time
"I'm only going to read one card today, it's from grooms name old football team. It says dear brides name, after 6 years of trying grooms name, was useless in every postion, heres hoping you have more luck"
It's customary to tell a story or 2 about the groom, however after looking for his skeletons I found he didn't even have a closet, so I shall tell a story about the bride (whilst unravelling a roll of paper).
Now as tradtion states the person who wears the trousers now sys a few words, however today brides name has told me that groom's name is going to do it