[Misc] Younger Brother dying.

[birthofanorange]

Such shit news and I feel for you and yours. Loss is a terrible thing, especially when it takes you by surprise. My thoughts are with you and keep on keeping on, as it's all we can do.

 

[Herr Tubthumper]

How awful. Take care of yourself xx.

 

[cheshunt seagull]

Terrible news. I am wishing you all the very best.

 

[vegster]

Terrible news, I'm so so sorry, life can be so cruel.

 

[spence]

Personally I would make the effort of seeing him. You will only get one chance and you might regret it. I'm seeing my cousin soon as she only has a few months to live to cancer.
It's not a nice position to be in. Wish you all the best.

 

[LANGDON SEAGULL]

So sorry to hear this. Take care

 

[doogie004]

very sorry to hear stay strong and best wishes to all concerned

 

[Ludensian Gull]

So sorry to hear this, thoughts are with you Jakarta

 

[dazzer6666]

So sorry to hear……I know how you feel - it just feels so wrong. I lost my sister (10 years younger than me and 42) a few years ago to cancer - the whole progression of the illness, multiple ops, consultant appointments then the hospice (where we managed to arrange a wedding for her and her boyfriend) and finally going back to my mum and dad’s for her ‘final few hours’ that somehow turned into 3 weeks was horrible. Try not to feel guilty about anything (you might - I did but it doesn’t help anyone), talk to family and support anyone else that needs it……also I had quite a few moments where I lost it completely, but looking back it was just part of the process so let it happen if it does. Stay strong - thoughts with you.

 

[Peacehaven Wild Kids]

Very saddened to read this, my thoughts are with you and your family.

 

[Motogull]

I am also saddened by this @jakarta. He's too young to go, that's for sure. Do what you feel is best - there is no right or wrong.

 

[DavidinSouthampton]

Like always in these situations I have no wordso f wisdom to help . All I can do is send you my love. It's all I have. Today and in the difficult time ahead remember we feel your pain and wish we could make it easier.

That is a beautiful post, and I share the sentiments entirely.

 

[Frutos]

Very sorry to hear this @jakarta

Thoughts with you and your family.

 

[Green Cross Code Man]

I am so sorry to read this. I am only a few years younger than your brother and have just lost a close friend and colleague a month ago. I still feel terrible, I can only imagine the pain you are in at this time. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

 

[One Teddy Maybank]

So sorry to hear your news.

 

[jakarta]

So sorry to hear your news.

Died this morning, was on pain relief, antibiotics and maximum oxygen at the end, what a way to leave your life.. I'm glad he has gone but still feel shattered.

 

[Hampden Park]

Died this morning, was on pain relief, antibiotics and maximum oxygen at the end, what a way to leave your life.. I'm glad he has gone but still feel shattered.

RIP jakarta's brother

 

[Worried Man Blues]

So sorry to hear about your loss. Don't worry about not turning up to the funeral, it's what you do when they're alive that counts.

 

[jcdenton08]

I’m so sorry for your loss.

 

[oldboyroy]

Died this morning, was on pain relief, antibiotics and maximum oxygen at the end, what a way to leave your life.. I'm glad he has gone but still feel shattered.

Condolences to you and your family pal. Very sad for you