What do you follow, head or heart?

[Ninja Elephant]

I'm struggling a bit with my now ex-girlfriend, my heart says I should try and get back together with her, my head says I should have never got involved in the first place. To confuse matters a bit more, a THIRD organ is getting involved in the argument aswell.. my lungs don't miss the girl!

I'm just after a little bit of perspective from other people, what do you think is more important? Heart or head. NSC decides.


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COCK, I forgot to add a poll! Can a mod help please? Thanks.

 

[Biscuit]

Head.

There was a reason she's an ex. Keep it that way. You're having a weak moment but you know you deserve better,

 

[Reading Seagull]

Definitely head - get rid....

Then plough into her one last time to satisfy the 'third organ'

 

[n1 gull]

Think of her as a football manager, it never works 2nd time round - and there might be a Gus round the corner

 

[Biscuit]

Think of her as a football manager, it never works 2nd time round - and there might be a Gus round the corner

Although if she is called Gustavo, be wary.

 

[SirDouglasLoft]

shag her now and then. everyones a winner.

 

[Football_Friends]

It depends why u split up in the first place. If she cheated or similar let her go and go with your head, if it's something more simple follow your heart. People may say they told you so but will still be there for you. If you don't you'll only end up wondering what if. Better to regret doing something than not.

 

[Southwick_Seagull]

I'll wait for pics before making a decision.

 

[John Bumlick]

follow your nose. if she's a bit stinky, don't go back.

 

[The Wizard]

Depends I would say. Is it true love or do you think you could handle being without her?

PS; All I would say it better to die trying than not try at all and regret it for the rest of your life?

 

[Ninja Elephant]

I'll wait for pics before making a decision.

Judging by your username, there's a strong probability that you've come across her at some point.

Thanks for the replies gents, except SDL for confusing the issue still further!

The problem is, as a male it's tempting just to keep hanging around her for purely physical reasons... everyone needs someone afterall. But it's probably not the best idea, we don't share many things in common and she's certainly not "the one". And she's a plastic Chelsea fan aswell.

 

[Southwick_Seagull]

Judging by your username, there's a strong probability that you've come across her at some point.

Thanks for the replies gents, except SDL for confusing the issue still further!

The problem is, as a male it's tempting just to keep hanging around her for purely physical reasons... everyone needs someone afterall. But it's probably not the best idea, we don't share many things in common and she's certainly not "the one". And she's a plastic Chelsea fan aswell.

Oh i'm all intrigued now! I used to work in a very popular shop in Southwick Square and got to know alot of the teenagers of the area. So I probably do. You let me know who it is and i'll let you know if she's a keeper

 

[philsussex]

This thread is crying out for Danny Seagull's advice

 

[Ninja Elephant]

This thread is crying out for Danny Seagull's advice

No, it's bloody not!

 

[kevtherev]

Head everytime.....I followed my heart once and lost the f***ing lot. Season ticket, house, daughter, sky tv etc etc etc. Got it all back now( well nearly).....Head, head, head......Then again if you aint got nothing worth losing over it, who gives a shit!!!!!!

 

[Giraffe]

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COCK, I forgot to add a poll! Can a mod help please? Thanks.

Done

And with your heart, always.

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

Oh my days don't get me started again.

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

I went with my heart.

 

[Ninja Elephant]

Done

And with your heart, always.

Cheers mr Giraffe. I knew my fellow Zoo creature would save my blushes.

No, Unc, don't get started. For more than one reason.

 

[brighton_girl87]

we don't share many things in common and she's certainly not "the one". And she's a plastic Chelsea fan aswell.

Go with your head then, no point getting back together with her if you don't feel like she is "the one".

Whenever I have broken up with someone it always seems like it would be easier to get back together with them, than to continue feeling confused/upset. That soon passes and eventually you realise it was all for the best