Totally agree, bombing and shelling civilian populated areas in the vain hope you wipe out some opposition fighters is disgusting. Seriously will there be anything left in Syria when the conflict finally stops. A religiously tolerant and diverse society, well-educated people with a long history and culture will be starting from scratch, with so much bitterness and hatred amongst the various factions, sects and religions, you can't imagine how they can ever live in peace again. it's easy to blame the west, but if Assad at the beginning had showed a modicum of acceptance that reform was coming, instead of setting snipers to shoot peaceful protesters, this all could have been different.
Not sure about the "long history and culture " bit.
What we are dealing with with both Syria and Iraq is unrealistic borders drawn on maps after WW1, the same problem as in many other parts of the world by the then colonial powers. abetted by a USA which was still young and naieve in political terms.
Hence the Kurds which were and are a genuine ethnic group were not given their own state, one which would have straddled Turkey, Syria Iraq and Western Iran. The French wanted to keep their colonial influence in Syria and Lebanon, the Brits theirs in Jordan and Iraq. We even "parachuted" King Feisal into Iraq when he was Jordanian but there wasn't room for him there with the Hashemites. The Iraqis despised him and assassinated his son and successor in 1958.