Please see PM
? WHY WAS HE LEFT UNATTENDED? BECAUSE THEY WERE CHANGING OVER SHIFTS.....I AGAIN REPORTED THIS AND WAS SOBBING ON THE OFFICE FLOOR...SAYING GOD HELP WHOEVER LEFT HIM UNATTENDED IF HIS MRI SCAN REVEALS ANOTHER BLEED. WHY DIDNT A NURSE STAY PUT? AND A COLLEAGUE RELAY THE CHANGE OF SHIFT REPORT? ITS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE.Good man, well done. I've just dobbed in £25. C'mon everybody.
Right here's the update.
I spoke with Kim, Sully's wife at length and she is happy for me to give you a full update.
Firstly this is something she wants to share.
PLEASE PLEASE I PLEAD WITH YOU ALL, SPREAD THE WORD TO...SHOPS, BUS COMPANIES, TAXI COMPANIES, PRIVATE BUSINESSES, PEOPLE IN THE STREET...ENGLAND AND THE UNITED KINGDOM...NOT JUST US IN BRIGHTON ....TO PLEASE DRAFT UP ...
SULLYS WAY
OR
NO WAY CAMPAIGN.
ITS ALL IN PROCESS THE PAMPHLETS ...EXPLAINING EXACTLY HOW IT WORKS,
THIS IS A WIN/ WIN ...NOT ROCKET SCIENCE. I HAVE PUT IT INTO PRACTICE AND IT CERTAINLY WORKS 100% IT WORKS ...TRUST ME ...I HAVE BEEN DOING IT, FOR 2 WEEKS.
SULLYS WAY
OR
NO WAY
WORKS AS FOLLOWS.....
THE NHS ARE OVERSTRECHED AND FAILING ALL OF US ��
SO WHAT I HAVE BEEN DOING IS GOING INTO THE HOSPITAL , VISITING PETER AND SITTING BY HIS BEDSIDE FOR SEVERAL HOURS EACH DAY, I BOUGHT MYSELF A JOURNAL AND LEFT IT ON SIDE TABLE WITH MY NAME AND SAYING IT MUST NOT BE MOVED.
I DOCUMENTED ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING, DOCTORS NAMES, NURSES NAMES , HEALTH CARE ASSISTANTS AND SO ON....
I WOULD WRITE...INTENSIVE CARE UNIT FAILED PETER MISERABLY, THEY HADNT GIVEN HIM FLUIDS ALL DAY, ANOTHER NURSE POINTED IT OUT TO ME.
WHEN PETERS NURSE CAME BACK FROM THE TOILET, I SAID WHY HASNT PETER HAD ANY FLUIDS TODAY? SHE SAID...HE HAD SIPS OF WATER WITH HIS MEDICATION , I SAID WHY HAVENT YOU BEEN READING HIS NOTES? IVE MADE IT CLEAR THAT PETER WILL ONLY DRINK APPLE AND BLACKCURRENT ADDED TO WATER...SHE SAID SHE DIDNT KNOW THAT. THEN SHE SAID WHERE IS HIS APPLE AND BLACKCURRENT....I POINTED AND SAID....THERE IT IS , RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU. SHE SAID IM HIS NURSE...YOU SHOULDNT LISTEN TO OTHER NURSES....THEN HER MOBILE WAS RINGING SO SHE GOT OUT HER MOBILE FROM HER UNIFORM POCKET AND STARTED TEXTING ...WHILST I WAS SITTING ON A CHAIR NEXT TO PETER , CRITICALLY ILL IN INTENSIVE CARE UNIT....I IMMEDIATELY SEEKED A CONSULTANT, WE WENT INTO A PRIVATE ROOM FOR ONE HOUR AND I EXPLAINED EVERYTHING. THE CONSULTANT SAID THAT SHE WAS SO SO SORRY AND THAT I WAS WITHIN MY RIGHT TO TAKE IT FURTHER.
INCIDENT 2
PETER WAS BEING TRANSFERED FROM INTENSIVE CARE UNIT TO A HIGH DEPENCY UNIT/ROOM . I RECEIVED A CALL SAYING THAT PETER HAD FALLEN FROM THE BED....HE ALREADY HAS BRAIN TRAUMA , A BLEED ON HIS BRAIN....I SAID WHAT
THIS IS SHEER NEGLECT AND LACK OF BASIC CARE.
THERE ARE SEVERAL OTHER INCIDENCES TOO.
SO ARE YOU SEEING HOW SULLYS WAY OR NO WAY WORKS YET?
I WAS ABLE TO BE THERE AND WITNESS INCIDENCES AND REPORT IMMEDIATELY TO A CONSULTANT.
I WAS OBLIGED TO GIVE NAMES, TIMES, DATES AND MY VIEWS ABOUT IT.
SULLYS WAY OR NO WAY
WILL ALLOW ONE FAMILY MEMBER AN AUTHORISED PASS..THAT MUST BE WORN AROUND THE NECK AT ALL TIMES.
THE FAMILY MEMBER WILL TAKE A DAILY LATERAL COVID TEST AND SCREEN SHOT AS PROOF BEFORE ENTERING THE WARD.
THIS PASS ALLOWS THE FAMILY MEMBER TO GIVE THEIR LOVED ONES , THE BASIC CARE THAT IS BEING DENIED BY NURSING STAFF...YOU CAN WRITE DOWN IN YOUR JOURNALS ...SUCH AS..DOING WELL TODAY...OR NEVER ATE DINNER....OR YOU NOTICE A DECLINE... YOU THEN PASS ON YOUR OBSERVATIONS TO THE CHARGE NURSE AND IF ANY SERIOUS CONCERNS ,IT WILL BE DEALT WITH ON THAT SAME DAY.
I HAVE AN EXCELLENT EXAMPLE OF HOW IT WORKED FOR SULLY.
HE KEPT SAYING THAT HE WAS IN AGONY...I SAID WHERE? HE SAID DOWN THERE ( PENIS AREA) SO I REPORTED IT TO A DOCTOR ...WHO SAID ITS JUST THE CATHETER ...TAKES TIME GETTING USED TO IT.SO I GO IN THE NEXT DAY...AND PETER SAYS IM IN AGONY.....I THOUGHT THIS ISNT RIGHT, NO WAY SHOULD YOU GE IN AGONY WITH A CATHETER...SO I TOLD A DOCTOR AGAIN ....NEXT DAY I GO IN...THEY DID BLOOD TEST AND ANAEMIC...PLUS HIS ENLARGED PROSTATE HAS GROWN LARGER....SO BY ME BEING BY MY LOVED ONES SIDE , I WAS ABLE TO ACT ON IT...OTHERWISE IT WOULD HAVE GONE UNNOTICED....HE IS NOW ON IRON TABLETS, HE iS NOW ON INCREASED MEDICATION FOR THE LARGE PROSTATE AND THEY HAVE DONE A STOOL CANCER SCREENING TEST....IF THE STOOL BOWEL TEST COMES BACK POSITIVE ...THEN A CAMERA ON THE BOWELS AND COLON ......THANK GOD IVE BEEN THERE...IT WAS MY OBSERVATIONS THAT ARE NOW LEADING TO FURTHER INVESTIGATIONS , AND NOW, PETER NEVER SAYS TO ME THAT HE IS IN AGONY.
I THINK IVE SAVED HIM AT LEAST TWICE ...BECAUSE OF MY OBSERVATION.
SULLYS WAY
OR
NO WAY
HELPS THE OVERSTRETCHED NHS SYSTEM , IT ALLOWS US THE FAMILIES TO GIVE BASIC CARE TO OUR LOVED ONES
AND NO DOUBT INCREASED SURVIVAL RATE
EVERYONE BENEFITS.
MY WAY
OR
SULLYS WAY
WILL BE AN OPTION...YOU ARE NOT OBLIGATED TO CARE FOR YOUR LOVED ONE WHILST IN HOSPITAL,
IM CERTAINLY GLAD THAT I DID.
NO MORE OVERSTRETCHED NHS
HIGHER SURVIVAL RATES
OUR LOVED ONES RECEIVE THEIR BASIC NURSING NEEDS
EVERYONE IS A WINNER.
Sully is back home after his second hospital. This was due to him removing his catheter. He has dementia, was in pain so took what he thought was the right action. Much blood later he was taken to hospital. His carpet is ruined!
Kim being younger than Sully was still working until this sad episode and has now had to become his full-time carer. As of yet she has no benefits to help her financially. Kim does own her house but Sully had very little when they met and the small amount he has she has been unable so far to get access as he has forgotten his pin. In short they are in need.
I have contacted the PFA and the ball is rolling on that front along with Dawn Astle.
Kim is very grateful for any help, she is very proud and finding it hard to reach out for the help they both deserve.
If there is anyone who can help with the carpet please PM me.
I have along with Spenser Vignes set up a go fund me page. This will go directly to Kim to help Sully. It's times like this the NSC community can really help two people that are struggling.
We hope the club will stand up and help more but apart from nice replies nothing is forthcoming.
https://gofund.me/5a8145c2
Thanks all
Right here's the update.
I spoke with Kim, Sully's wife at length and she is happy for me to give you a full update.
Firstly this is something she wants to share.
PLEASE PLEASE I PLEAD WITH YOU ALL, SPREAD THE WORD TO...SHOPS, BUS COMPANIES, TAXI COMPANIES, PRIVATE BUSINESSES, PEOPLE IN THE STREET...ENGLAND AND THE UNITED KINGDOM...NOT JUST US IN BRIGHTON ....TO PLEASE DRAFT UP ...
SULLYS WAY
OR
NO WAY CAMPAIGN.
ITS ALL IN PROCESS THE PAMPHLETS ...EXPLAINING EXACTLY HOW IT WORKS,
THIS IS A WIN/ WIN ...NOT ROCKET SCIENCE. I HAVE PUT IT INTO PRACTICE AND IT CERTAINLY WORKS 100% IT WORKS ...TRUST ME ...I HAVE BEEN DOING IT, FOR 2 WEEKS.
SULLYS WAY
OR
NO WAY
WORKS AS FOLLOWS.....
THE NHS ARE OVERSTRECHED AND FAILING ALL OF US ��
SO WHAT I HAVE BEEN DOING IS GOING INTO THE HOSPITAL , VISITING PETER AND SITTING BY HIS BEDSIDE FOR SEVERAL HOURS EACH DAY, I BOUGHT MYSELF A JOURNAL AND LEFT IT ON SIDE TABLE WITH MY NAME AND SAYING IT MUST NOT BE MOVED.
I DOCUMENTED ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING, DOCTORS NAMES, NURSES NAMES , HEALTH CARE ASSISTANTS AND SO ON....
I WOULD WRITE...INTENSIVE CARE UNIT FAILED PETER MISERABLY, THEY HADNT GIVEN HIM FLUIDS ALL DAY, ANOTHER NURSE POINTED IT OUT TO ME.
WHEN PETERS NURSE CAME BACK FROM THE TOILET, I SAID WHY HASNT PETER HAD ANY FLUIDS TODAY? SHE SAID...HE HAD SIPS OF WATER WITH HIS MEDICATION , I SAID WHY HAVENT YOU BEEN READING HIS NOTES? IVE MADE IT CLEAR THAT PETER WILL ONLY DRINK APPLE AND BLACKCURRENT ADDED TO WATER...SHE SAID SHE DIDNT KNOW THAT. THEN SHE SAID WHERE IS HIS APPLE AND BLACKCURRENT....I POINTED AND SAID....THERE IT IS , RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU. SHE SAID IM HIS NURSE...YOU SHOULDNT LISTEN TO OTHER NURSES....THEN HER MOBILE WAS RINGING SO SHE GOT OUT HER MOBILE FROM HER UNIFORM POCKET AND STARTED TEXTING ...WHILST I WAS SITTING ON A CHAIR NEXT TO PETER , CRITICALLY ILL IN INTENSIVE CARE UNIT....I IMMEDIATELY SEEKED A CONSULTANT, WE WENT INTO A PRIVATE ROOM FOR ONE HOUR AND I EXPLAINED EVERYTHING. THE CONSULTANT SAID THAT SHE WAS SO SO SORRY AND THAT I WAS WITHIN MY RIGHT TO TAKE IT FURTHER.
INCIDENT 2
PETER WAS BEING TRANSFERED FROM INTENSIVE CARE UNIT TO A HIGH DEPENCY UNIT/ROOM . I RECEIVED A CALL SAYING THAT PETER HAD FALLEN FROM THE BED....HE ALREADY HAS BRAIN TRAUMA , A BLEED ON HIS BRAIN....I SAID WHAT
THIS IS SHEER NEGLECT AND LACK OF BASIC CARE.
THERE ARE SEVERAL OTHER INCIDENCES TOO.
SO ARE YOU SEEING HOW SULLYS WAY OR NO WAY WORKS YET?
I WAS ABLE TO BE THERE AND WITNESS INCIDENCES AND REPORT IMMEDIATELY TO A CONSULTANT.
I WAS OBLIGED TO GIVE NAMES, TIMES, DATES AND MY VIEWS ABOUT IT.
SULLYS WAY OR NO WAY
WILL ALLOW ONE FAMILY MEMBER AN AUTHORISED PASS..THAT MUST BE WORN AROUND THE NECK AT ALL TIMES.
THE FAMILY MEMBER WILL TAKE A DAILY LATERAL COVID TEST AND SCREEN SHOT AS PROOF BEFORE ENTERING THE WARD.
THIS PASS ALLOWS THE FAMILY MEMBER TO GIVE THEIR LOVED ONES , THE BASIC CARE THAT IS BEING DENIED BY NURSING STAFF...YOU CAN WRITE DOWN IN YOUR JOURNALS ...SUCH AS..DOING WELL TODAY...OR NEVER ATE DINNER....OR YOU NOTICE A DECLINE... YOU THEN PASS ON YOUR OBSERVATIONS TO THE CHARGE NURSE AND IF ANY SERIOUS CONCERNS ,IT WILL BE DEALT WITH ON THAT SAME DAY.
I HAVE AN EXCELLENT EXAMPLE OF HOW IT WORKED FOR SULLY.
HE KEPT SAYING THAT HE WAS IN AGONY...I SAID WHERE? HE SAID DOWN THERE ( PENIS AREA) SO I REPORTED IT TO A DOCTOR ...WHO SAID ITS JUST THE CATHETER ...TAKES TIME GETTING USED TO IT.SO I GO IN THE NEXT DAY...AND PETER SAYS IM IN AGONY.....I THOUGHT THIS ISNT RIGHT, NO WAY SHOULD YOU GE IN AGONY WITH A CATHETER...SO I TOLD A DOCTOR AGAIN ....NEXT DAY I GO IN...THEY DID BLOOD TEST AND ANAEMIC...PLUS HIS ENLARGED PROSTATE HAS GROWN LARGER....SO BY ME BEING BY MY LOVED ONES SIDE , I WAS ABLE TO ACT ON IT...OTHERWISE IT WOULD HAVE GONE UNNOTICED....HE IS NOW ON IRON TABLETS, HE iS NOW ON INCREASED MEDICATION FOR THE LARGE PROSTATE AND THEY HAVE DONE A STOOL CANCER SCREENING TEST....IF THE STOOL BOWEL TEST COMES BACK POSITIVE ...THEN A CAMERA ON THE BOWELS AND COLON ......THANK GOD IVE BEEN THERE...IT WAS MY OBSERVATIONS THAT ARE NOW LEADING TO FURTHER INVESTIGATIONS , AND NOW, PETER NEVER SAYS TO ME THAT HE IS IN AGONY.
I THINK IVE SAVED HIM AT LEAST TWICE ...BECAUSE OF MY OBSERVATION.
SULLYS WAY
OR
NO WAY
HELPS THE OVERSTRETCHED NHS SYSTEM , IT ALLOWS US THE FAMILIES TO GIVE BASIC CARE TO OUR LOVED ONES
AND NO DOUBT INCREASED SURVIVAL RATE
EVERYONE BENEFITS.
MY WAY
OR
SULLYS WAY
WILL BE AN OPTION...YOU ARE NOT OBLIGATED TO CARE FOR YOUR LOVED ONE WHILST IN HOSPITAL,
IM CERTAINLY GLAD THAT I DID.
NO MORE OVERSTRETCHED NHS
HIGHER SURVIVAL RATES
OUR LOVED ONES RECEIVE THEIR BASIC NURSING NEEDS
EVERYONE IS A WINNER.
Sully is back home after his second hospital. This was due to him removing his catheter. He has dementia, was in pain so took what he thought was the right action. Much blood later he was taken to hospital. His carpet is ruined!
Kim being younger than Sully was still working until this sad episode and has now had to become his full-time carer. As of yet she has no benefits to help her financially. Kim does own her house but Sully had very little when they met and the small amount he has she has been unable so far to get access as he has forgotten his pin. In short they are in need.
I have contacted the PFA and the ball is rolling on that front along with Dawn Astle.
Kim is very grateful for any help, she is very proud and finding it hard to reach out for the help they both deserve.
If there is anyone who can help with the carpet please PM me.
I have along with Spenser Vignes set up a go fund me page. This will go directly to Kim to help Sully. It's times like this the NSC community can really help two people that are struggling.
We hope the club will stand up and help more but apart from nice replies nothing is forthcoming.
https://gofund.me/5a8145c2
Thanks all
Right here's the update.
I spoke with Kim, Sully's wife at length and she is happy for me to give you a full update.
Firstly this is something she wants to share.
PLEASE PLEASE I PLEAD WITH YOU ALL, SPREAD THE WORD TO...SHOPS, BUS COMPANIES, TAXI COMPANIES, PRIVATE BUSINESSES, PEOPLE IN THE STREET...ENGLAND AND THE UNITED KINGDOM...NOT JUST US IN BRIGHTON ....TO PLEASE DRAFT UP ...
SULLYS WAY
OR
NO WAY CAMPAIGN.
ITS ALL IN PROCESS THE PAMPHLETS ...EXPLAINING EXACTLY HOW IT WORKS,
THIS IS A WIN/ WIN ...NOT ROCKET SCIENCE. I HAVE PUT IT INTO PRACTICE AND IT CERTAINLY WORKS 100% IT WORKS ...TRUST ME ...I HAVE BEEN DOING IT, FOR 2 WEEKS.
SULLYS WAY
OR
NO WAY
WORKS AS FOLLOWS.....
THE NHS ARE OVERSTRECHED AND FAILING ALL OF US ��
SO WHAT I HAVE BEEN DOING IS GOING INTO THE HOSPITAL , VISITING PETER AND SITTING BY HIS BEDSIDE FOR SEVERAL HOURS EACH DAY, I BOUGHT MYSELF A JOURNAL AND LEFT IT ON SIDE TABLE WITH MY NAME AND SAYING IT MUST NOT BE MOVED.
I DOCUMENTED ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING, DOCTORS NAMES, NURSES NAMES , HEALTH CARE ASSISTANTS AND SO ON....
I WOULD WRITE...INTENSIVE CARE UNIT FAILED PETER MISERABLY, THEY HADNT GIVEN HIM FLUIDS ALL DAY, ANOTHER NURSE POINTED IT OUT TO ME.
WHEN PETERS NURSE CAME BACK FROM THE TOILET, I SAID WHY HASNT PETER HAD ANY FLUIDS TODAY? SHE SAID...HE HAD SIPS OF WATER WITH HIS MEDICATION , I SAID WHY HAVENT YOU BEEN READING HIS NOTES? IVE MADE IT CLEAR THAT PETER WILL ONLY DRINK APPLE AND BLACKCURRENT ADDED TO WATER...SHE SAID SHE DIDNT KNOW THAT. THEN SHE SAID WHERE IS HIS APPLE AND BLACKCURRENT....I POINTED AND SAID....THERE IT IS , RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU. SHE SAID IM HIS NURSE...YOU SHOULDNT LISTEN TO OTHER NURSES....THEN HER MOBILE WAS RINGING SO SHE GOT OUT HER MOBILE FROM HER UNIFORM POCKET AND STARTED TEXTING ...WHILST I WAS SITTING ON A CHAIR NEXT TO PETER , CRITICALLY ILL IN INTENSIVE CARE UNIT....I IMMEDIATELY SEEKED A CONSULTANT, WE WENT INTO A PRIVATE ROOM FOR ONE HOUR AND I EXPLAINED EVERYTHING. THE CONSULTANT SAID THAT SHE WAS SO SO SORRY AND THAT I WAS WITHIN MY RIGHT TO TAKE IT FURTHER.
INCIDENT 2
PETER WAS BEING TRANSFERED FROM INTENSIVE CARE UNIT TO A HIGH DEPENCY UNIT/ROOM . I RECEIVED A CALL SAYING THAT PETER HAD FALLEN FROM THE BED....HE ALREADY HAS BRAIN TRAUMA , A BLEED ON HIS BRAIN....I SAID WHAT
THIS IS SHEER NEGLECT AND LACK OF BASIC CARE.
THERE ARE SEVERAL OTHER INCIDENCES TOO.
SO ARE YOU SEEING HOW SULLYS WAY OR NO WAY WORKS YET?
I WAS ABLE TO BE THERE AND WITNESS INCIDENCES AND REPORT IMMEDIATELY TO A CONSULTANT.
I WAS OBLIGED TO GIVE NAMES, TIMES, DATES AND MY VIEWS ABOUT IT.
SULLYS WAY OR NO WAY
WILL ALLOW ONE FAMILY MEMBER AN AUTHORISED PASS..THAT MUST BE WORN AROUND THE NECK AT ALL TIMES.
THE FAMILY MEMBER WILL TAKE A DAILY LATERAL COVID TEST AND SCREEN SHOT AS PROOF BEFORE ENTERING THE WARD.
THIS PASS ALLOWS THE FAMILY MEMBER TO GIVE THEIR LOVED ONES , THE BASIC CARE THAT IS BEING DENIED BY NURSING STAFF...YOU CAN WRITE DOWN IN YOUR JOURNALS ...SUCH AS..DOING WELL TODAY...OR NEVER ATE DINNER....OR YOU NOTICE A DECLINE... YOU THEN PASS ON YOUR OBSERVATIONS TO THE CHARGE NURSE AND IF ANY SERIOUS CONCERNS ,IT WILL BE DEALT WITH ON THAT SAME DAY.
I HAVE AN EXCELLENT EXAMPLE OF HOW IT WORKED FOR SULLY.
HE KEPT SAYING THAT HE WAS IN AGONY...I SAID WHERE? HE SAID DOWN THERE ( PENIS AREA) SO I REPORTED IT TO A DOCTOR ...WHO SAID ITS JUST THE CATHETER ...TAKES TIME GETTING USED TO IT.SO I GO IN THE NEXT DAY...AND PETER SAYS IM IN AGONY.....I THOUGHT THIS ISNT RIGHT, NO WAY SHOULD YOU GE IN AGONY WITH A CATHETER...SO I TOLD A DOCTOR AGAIN ....NEXT DAY I GO IN...THEY DID BLOOD TEST AND ANAEMIC...PLUS HIS ENLARGED PROSTATE HAS GROWN LARGER....SO BY ME BEING BY MY LOVED ONES SIDE , I WAS ABLE TO ACT ON IT...OTHERWISE IT WOULD HAVE GONE UNNOTICED....HE IS NOW ON IRON TABLETS, HE iS NOW ON INCREASED MEDICATION FOR THE LARGE PROSTATE AND THEY HAVE DONE A STOOL CANCER SCREENING TEST....IF THE STOOL BOWEL TEST COMES BACK POSITIVE ...THEN A CAMERA ON THE BOWELS AND COLON ......THANK GOD IVE BEEN THERE...IT WAS MY OBSERVATIONS THAT ARE NOW LEADING TO FURTHER INVESTIGATIONS , AND NOW, PETER NEVER SAYS TO ME THAT HE IS IN AGONY.
I THINK IVE SAVED HIM AT LEAST TWICE ...BECAUSE OF MY OBSERVATION.
SULLYS WAY
OR
NO WAY
HELPS THE OVERSTRETCHED NHS SYSTEM , IT ALLOWS US THE FAMILIES TO GIVE BASIC CARE TO OUR LOVED ONES
AND NO DOUBT INCREASED SURVIVAL RATE
EVERYONE BENEFITS.
MY WAY
OR
SULLYS WAY
WILL BE AN OPTION...YOU ARE NOT OBLIGATED TO CARE FOR YOUR LOVED ONE WHILST IN HOSPITAL,
IM CERTAINLY GLAD THAT I DID.
NO MORE OVERSTRETCHED NHS
HIGHER SURVIVAL RATES
OUR LOVED ONES RECEIVE THEIR BASIC NURSING NEEDS
EVERYONE IS A WINNER.
Sully is back home after his second hospital. This was due to him removing his catheter. He has dementia, was in pain so took what he thought was the right action. Much blood later he was taken to hospital. His carpet is ruined!
Kim being younger than Sully was still working until this sad episode and has now had to become his full-time carer. As of yet she has no benefits to help her financially. Kim does own her house but Sully had very little when they met and the small amount he has she has been unable so far to get access as he has forgotten his pin. In short they are in need.
I have contacted the PFA and the ball is rolling on that front along with Dawn Astle.
Kim is very grateful for any help, she is very proud and finding it hard to reach out for the help they both deserve.
If there is anyone who can help with the carpet please PM me.
I have along with Spenser Vignes set up a go fund me page. This will go directly to Kim to help Sully. It's times like this the NSC community can really help two people that are struggling.
We hope the club will stand up and help more but apart from nice replies nothing is forthcoming.
https://gofund.me/5a8145c2
Thanks all
Right here's the update.
I spoke with Kim, Sully's wife at length and she is happy for me to give you a full update.
Firstly this is something she wants to share.
PLEASE PLEASE I PLEAD WITH YOU ALL, SPREAD THE WORD TO...SHOPS, BUS COMPANIES, TAXI COMPANIES, PRIVATE BUSINESSES, PEOPLE IN THE STREET...ENGLAND AND THE UNITED KINGDOM...NOT JUST US IN BRIGHTON ....TO PLEASE DRAFT UP ...
SULLYS WAY
OR
NO WAY CAMPAIGN.
ITS ALL IN PROCESS THE PAMPHLETS ...EXPLAINING EXACTLY HOW IT WORKS,
THIS IS A WIN/ WIN ...NOT ROCKET SCIENCE. I HAVE PUT IT INTO PRACTICE AND IT CERTAINLY WORKS 100% IT WORKS ...TRUST ME ...I HAVE BEEN DOING IT, FOR 2 WEEKS.
SULLYS WAY
OR
NO WAY
WORKS AS FOLLOWS.....
THE NHS ARE OVERSTRECHED AND FAILING ALL OF US ��
SO WHAT I HAVE BEEN DOING IS GOING INTO THE HOSPITAL , VISITING PETER AND SITTING BY HIS BEDSIDE FOR SEVERAL HOURS EACH DAY, I BOUGHT MYSELF A JOURNAL AND LEFT IT ON SIDE TABLE WITH MY NAME AND SAYING IT MUST NOT BE MOVED.
I DOCUMENTED ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING, DOCTORS NAMES, NURSES NAMES , HEALTH CARE ASSISTANTS AND SO ON....
I WOULD WRITE...INTENSIVE CARE UNIT FAILED PETER MISERABLY, THEY HADNT GIVEN HIM FLUIDS ALL DAY, ANOTHER NURSE POINTED IT OUT TO ME.
WHEN PETERS NURSE CAME BACK FROM THE TOILET, I SAID WHY HASNT PETER HAD ANY FLUIDS TODAY? SHE SAID...HE HAD SIPS OF WATER WITH HIS MEDICATION , I SAID WHY HAVENT YOU BEEN READING HIS NOTES? IVE MADE IT CLEAR THAT PETER WILL ONLY DRINK APPLE AND BLACKCURRENT ADDED TO WATER...SHE SAID SHE DIDNT KNOW THAT. THEN SHE SAID WHERE IS HIS APPLE AND BLACKCURRENT....I POINTED AND SAID....THERE IT IS , RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU. SHE SAID IM HIS NURSE...YOU SHOULDNT LISTEN TO OTHER NURSES....THEN HER MOBILE WAS RINGING SO SHE GOT OUT HER MOBILE FROM HER UNIFORM POCKET AND STARTED TEXTING ...WHILST I WAS SITTING ON A CHAIR NEXT TO PETER , CRITICALLY ILL IN INTENSIVE CARE UNIT....I IMMEDIATELY SEEKED A CONSULTANT, WE WENT INTO A PRIVATE ROOM FOR ONE HOUR AND I EXPLAINED EVERYTHING. THE CONSULTANT SAID THAT SHE WAS SO SO SORRY AND THAT I WAS WITHIN MY RIGHT TO TAKE IT FURTHER.
INCIDENT 2
PETER WAS BEING TRANSFERED FROM INTENSIVE CARE UNIT TO A HIGH DEPENCY UNIT/ROOM . I RECEIVED A CALL SAYING THAT PETER HAD FALLEN FROM THE BED....HE ALREADY HAS BRAIN TRAUMA , A BLEED ON HIS BRAIN....I SAID WHAT
THIS IS SHEER NEGLECT AND LACK OF BASIC CARE.
THERE ARE SEVERAL OTHER INCIDENCES TOO.
SO ARE YOU SEEING HOW SULLYS WAY OR NO WAY WORKS YET?
I WAS ABLE TO BE THERE AND WITNESS INCIDENCES AND REPORT IMMEDIATELY TO A CONSULTANT.
I WAS OBLIGED TO GIVE NAMES, TIMES, DATES AND MY VIEWS ABOUT IT.
SULLYS WAY OR NO WAY
WILL ALLOW ONE FAMILY MEMBER AN AUTHORISED PASS..THAT MUST BE WORN AROUND THE NECK AT ALL TIMES.
THE FAMILY MEMBER WILL TAKE A DAILY LATERAL COVID TEST AND SCREEN SHOT AS PROOF BEFORE ENTERING THE WARD.
THIS PASS ALLOWS THE FAMILY MEMBER TO GIVE THEIR LOVED ONES , THE BASIC CARE THAT IS BEING DENIED BY NURSING STAFF...YOU CAN WRITE DOWN IN YOUR JOURNALS ...SUCH AS..DOING WELL TODAY...OR NEVER ATE DINNER....OR YOU NOTICE A DECLINE... YOU THEN PASS ON YOUR OBSERVATIONS TO THE CHARGE NURSE AND IF ANY SERIOUS CONCERNS ,IT WILL BE DEALT WITH ON THAT SAME DAY.
I HAVE AN EXCELLENT EXAMPLE OF HOW IT WORKED FOR SULLY.
HE KEPT SAYING THAT HE WAS IN AGONY...I SAID WHERE? HE SAID DOWN THERE ( PENIS AREA) SO I REPORTED IT TO A DOCTOR ...WHO SAID ITS JUST THE CATHETER ...TAKES TIME GETTING USED TO IT.SO I GO IN THE NEXT DAY...AND PETER SAYS IM IN AGONY.....I THOUGHT THIS ISNT RIGHT, NO WAY SHOULD YOU GE IN AGONY WITH A CATHETER...SO I TOLD A DOCTOR AGAIN ....NEXT DAY I GO IN...THEY DID BLOOD TEST AND ANAEMIC...PLUS HIS ENLARGED PROSTATE HAS GROWN LARGER....SO BY ME BEING BY MY LOVED ONES SIDE , I WAS ABLE TO ACT ON IT...OTHERWISE IT WOULD HAVE GONE UNNOTICED....HE IS NOW ON IRON TABLETS, HE iS NOW ON INCREASED MEDICATION FOR THE LARGE PROSTATE AND THEY HAVE DONE A STOOL CANCER SCREENING TEST....IF THE STOOL BOWEL TEST COMES BACK POSITIVE ...THEN A CAMERA ON THE BOWELS AND COLON ......THANK GOD IVE BEEN THERE...IT WAS MY OBSERVATIONS THAT ARE NOW LEADING TO FURTHER INVESTIGATIONS , AND NOW, PETER NEVER SAYS TO ME THAT HE IS IN AGONY.
I THINK IVE SAVED HIM AT LEAST TWICE ...BECAUSE OF MY OBSERVATION.
SULLYS WAY
OR
NO WAY
HELPS THE OVERSTRETCHED NHS SYSTEM , IT ALLOWS US THE FAMILIES TO GIVE BASIC CARE TO OUR LOVED ONES
AND NO DOUBT INCREASED SURVIVAL RATE
EVERYONE BENEFITS.
MY WAY
OR
SULLYS WAY
WILL BE AN OPTION...YOU ARE NOT OBLIGATED TO CARE FOR YOUR LOVED ONE WHILST IN HOSPITAL,
IM CERTAINLY GLAD THAT I DID.
NO MORE OVERSTRETCHED NHS
HIGHER SURVIVAL RATES
OUR LOVED ONES RECEIVE THEIR BASIC NURSING NEEDS
EVERYONE IS A WINNER.
Sully is back home after his second hospital. This was due to him removing his catheter. He has dementia, was in pain so took what he thought was the right action. Much blood later he was taken to hospital. His carpet is ruined!
Kim being younger than Sully was still working until this sad episode and has now had to become his full-time carer. As of yet she has no benefits to help her financially. Kim does own her house but Sully had very little when they met and the small amount he has she has been unable so far to get access as he has forgotten his pin. In short they are in need.
I have contacted the PFA and the ball is rolling on that front along with Dawn Astle.
Kim is very grateful for any help, she is very proud and finding it hard to reach out for the help they both deserve.
If there is anyone who can help with the carpet please PM me.
I have along with Spenser Vignes set up a go fund me page. This will go directly to Kim to help Sully. It's times like this the NSC community can really help two people that are struggling.
We hope the club will stand up and help more but apart from nice replies nothing is forthcoming.
https://gofund.me/5a8145c2
Thanks all
