brighton_girl87
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- Jul 18, 2006
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I caught the tail end of something suggested that children should be discouraged from cuddling grand parents and shaking hands instead, I couldnt believe my ears
It's not about them being discouraged from hugging their grandparents, it's just a case of not getting angry or making them do it if they don't really want to. By forcing them, it's been suggested that it could confuse the child into thinking that they have no control over their own bodies and that the wishes and feelings of an adult matter more.