[Misc] Cremation ashes tattoo

[Jam The Man]

Hi all -
I appreciate this might sound like an odd thing for some to even consider, but has anyone had this done in Sussex?

 

[Insel affe]

Hi all -
I appreciate this might sound like an odd thing for some to even consider, but has anyone had this done in Sussex?

Not odd, very weird indeed...

Not wishing to sound disrespectful, who's ashes ?

Please don't say a pet...

 

[herecomesaregular]

Not odd, very weird indeed...

Not wishing to sound disrespectful, who's ashes ?

Please don't say a pet...

Bit rude.

I'm not a fan of a tattoo, I don't have any on myself and I don't really fancy them on women, however I do "get" the cremation ashes tattoo.

 

[Jam The Man]

Not odd, very weird indeed...

Not wishing to sound disrespectful, who's ashes ?

Please don't say a pet...

My father passed away recently and a friend of mine suggested you can get minuscule amounts of ashes made into jewellery, ornaments, tattoos etc.
Not at all made my mind up yet as I’m actually not keen on tattoos personally, but just wondered if this was more of a ‘thing’ than I’d realised.

 

[Insel affe]

My father passed away recently and a friend of mine suggested you can get minuscule amounts of ashes made into jewellery, ornaments, tattoos etc.
Not at all made my mind up yet as I’m actually not keen on tattoos personally, but just wondered if this was more of a ‘thing’ than I’d realised.

Sorry to hear that, and I hope my joke was not to crass.

I have numerous tattoos, never actually heard of this before, not sure I would want someone I loved permanently etched into my skin to be honest. Not because of any moral standpoint, more a spooky one "I am not sure if I want my loved one being part of me, and watching my every move". An ornament that projects light would be a thing that I would think of now you mention that.
At night reading a book, and switch on the light, would be a comforting thing.

 

[scooter1]

Both my wife and her sister have jewellery with their mothers ashes, but not tattoos. Each to their own I guess...

 

[Questions]

Better to snort some of the ashes with a fat line of Charley like Keef was reported to have done.

 

[Jam The Man]

Sorry to hear that, and I hope my joke was not to crass.

I have numerous tattoos, never actually heard of this before, not sure I would want someone I loved permanently etched into my skin to be honest. Not because of any moral standpoint, more a spooky "I am not sure if I want my loved one being part of me watching my every move. an ornament that projects light would be a thing that I would think of now you mention that.
At night reading a book, and switch on the light, would be comforting thing.

No worries at all! Thanks for your views.

 

[BBassic]

Sorry to hear about your dad.

I'd say if you're not keen on tattoos probably best not to get one; I say that as a man with both arms covered.

An ornament would be a nice thing to get I think.

 

[Springal]

There is a place in Worthing near the Corner House / New Amsterdam pubs that specialises in ornaments and jewelry made with ashes

 

[Elbow750]

Hi all -
I appreciate this might sound like an odd thing for some to even consider, but has anyone had this done in Sussex?

Always difficult, but my advice in these things is take your time in making decisions and don't do anything irreversible.

I've known people who have had all their loved ones ashes scattered somewhere and then regretted they didn't have a cremation plot with a stone they could visit and lay flowers. Same thing with a Tattoo, what if you regret?

I've kept a bit of cremation ashes back from parents interments in the local cemetery and put small amount in our back garden under a newly planted rose bush. Just a little but enough to know they are there but we still have a stone to visit and lay flowers on.

 

[Jam The Man]

Always difficult, but my advice in these things is take your time in making decisions and don't do anything irreversible.

I've known people who have had all their loved ones ashes scattered somewhere and then regretted they didn't have a cremation plot with a stone they could visit and lay flowers. Same thing with a Tattoo, what if you regret?

I've kept a bit of cremation ashes back from parents interments in the local cemetery and put small amount in our back garden under a newly planted rose bush. Just a little but enough to know they are there but we still have a stone to visit and lay flowers on.

Yep - good advice and suggestions. Many thanks

 

[Live by the sea]

Personally I loathe tattoos on men and even worse on women so def wouldn’t be for me .

 

[Questions]

We put my mums ashes on the fireplace. I thought she was putting on weight until my brother admitted flicking his fag ash in there.

Disclaimer : we didn’t

 

[Algernon]

I think it's a great idea.
Get a small tattoo in a discrete place. (I'll line 'em up).
What's not to like? Step out of your comfort zone, albeit not too far.
Jeez, it'll probably just be a small tattoo, you'll not be removing a limb to show how much someone meant to you.

I wish I'd been able to get this carried out when my Dear old Mum passed away in 87.

 

[StillHateBellotti]

Hi all -
I appreciate this might sound like an odd thing for some to even consider, but has anyone had this done in Sussex?

My brother had his tattoo sleeve done with Dads ashes mixed in to the ink. They advised not to do it due to being, well a body effectively, but he is a bit weird and did it anyhow. All depends on the tattooist I suppose.

 

[Tokyohands]

Better to snort some of the ashes with a fat line of Charley like Keef was reported to have done.

I have seen this happen, minus the charley. A mate down the road had a big house party back when we were teenagers, we walked into the conservatory where a group were sitting sniffing lines. My mate spotted someone holding the big baggie and the box on the table and shouts "oi that's my ****ing dog!", the kid then dropped the baggie in shock spilling half of it on the floor.

Whenever we saw that kid around after that we'd throw a stick and shout fetch!
RIP Paddy, a bit of you lives on in Kev.

 

[dazzer6666]

Put my dad’s ashes in the lake near Tiverton we spent hundreds of hours fishing together when I was a kid…….it was what he wanted. I totally get the tattoo thing though, despite not having any myself (yet)