Indeed, the penny has finally dropped.
Interesting to see how willing the EU are to give us an extension? If I were them I'd only give it for only two things...
a) Time for a public vote to ratify May's deal
or
b) SM / CU Norway style discussion
Either that or carry on and destroy your economy and your own union
However, they may chose to be more accomodating
The thinking behind it maybe they don’t want to receive the blame (they still will by some idiots) for forcing the UK out with out an extension - even a shortish one shows they have tried everything to help.