I don't neccessarily want to meet up with other Brighton fans for a song and an orgy in a basement
What's the sat nav address for this basement?
Asking a friend, obvs.
I don't neccessarily want to meet up with other Brighton fans for a song and an orgy in a basement
To be honest, after the mental email to Barber thread - I wrote off [MENTION=38333]Swansman[/MENTION] as being a bit of a parody of reality along the [MENTION=3385]crodonilson[/MENTION] lines.
But he's not - he's just a bloke. His user title is Sensible Madman, I think that's wonderfully apt. There's definitely an element of people judging his posts by his username now, rather than their genuine merits. To a certain extent that's because he is responsible for some of the strangest postings I can think of on this forum (which REALLY is saying something!) and I don't neccessarily want to meet up with other Brighton fans for a song and an orgy in a basement, but his general idea of bringing people together over a common interest isn't without merit.
I wonder how many people go to the games alone, as I did for 20 years? How many would genuinely benefit from the type of organisation he's suggesting? It's not a bad idea, it's just coming from a source that people have decided they're not interested in hearing from. A broken clock is right twice a day and if you have enough ideas you're eventually going to stumble upon a good one. Don't write off the guy just because of previous bizarre suggestions/behaviour.
Finally - everyone on this forum has one thing in common, we feel a compelling need to post on an internet forum. Whether that's to get our opinions expressed and heard, for a bit of virtual company or anything else - be nice to each other. We recently lost one of the absolute pillars of this forum and there were plenty of people expressing regret at how they'd treated him while he was posting. Be nice to each other, whether you agree or not - we're all people.
So a guy comes on here and suggests some decent ideas for improving the atmosphere and people jump on him, with some pretty horrible stuff. No doubt the guy has thick enough skin but a bunch of you guys are embarrassing to the club. Fans united? Seems a lot of you have forgotten it was that spirit which saved the club, although seemingly that’s gone now
To be honest, after the mental email to Barber thread - I wrote off [MENTION=38333]Swansman[/MENTION] as being a bit of a parody of reality along the [MENTION=3385]crodonilson[/MENTION] lines.
But he's not - he's just a bloke. His user title is Sensible Madman, I think that's wonderfully apt. There's definitely an element of people judging his posts by his username now, rather than their genuine merits. To a certain extent that's because he is responsible for some of the strangest postings I can think of on this forum (which REALLY is saying something!) and I don't neccessarily want to meet up with other Brighton fans for a song and an orgy in a basement, but his general idea of bringing people together over a common interest isn't without merit.
I wonder how many people go to the games alone, as I did for 20 years? How many would genuinely benefit from the type of organisation he's suggesting? It's not a bad idea, it's just coming from a source that people have decided they're not interested in hearing from. A broken clock is right twice a day and if you have enough ideas you're eventually going to stumble upon a good one. Don't write off the guy just because of previous bizarre suggestions/behaviour.
Finally - everyone on this forum has one thing in common, we feel a compelling need to post on an internet forum. Whether that's to get our opinions expressed and heard, for a bit of virtual company or anything else - be nice to each other. We recently lost one of the absolute pillars of this forum and there were plenty of people expressing regret at how they'd treated him while he was posting. Be nice to each other, whether you agree or not - we're all people.
It seems the fans who actually saved the club and got Falmer secured through the planning process are now the ones who are wrong. You are in Sweden so you can meet up with him, instead of him pontificating from a keyboard.
He supported Swansea last year, so what does he know about us?
When did I say they were wrong? I said that is the spirit that saved the club: community and fan driven initiatives (similar to what he was advocating). It seems to be very much missing at the moment, the lack of atmosphere at the Amex, and the atmosphere on here at times, including this thread, being testament to that
You didn't say they were wrong but it has been implied in this thread.
People don't need to fight for the club any more and we have the success that we wanted. The atmosphere was great three years ago when we were fighting for promotion, but as always the destination isn't as good as the journey.
Yes, we are relaxed and complacent, but someone who has never been to the Amex, hardly knew we existed a year ago, isn't going to be the answer to improving our atmosphere.
What's the sat nav address for this basement?
Asking a friend, obvs.
And that’s all a good enough reason to be a d**k to him over a message board? (not you personally but certainly a few on here). Part of the success is attracting new fans, from all over the world, to me that is only a good thing. Unfortunately there are some who think only sitting through the rain at Gillingham and Withdean qualifies people for an opinion. At the end of the day, if you don’t want to be part of a fan club, don’t join it, but don’t knock someone for trying to support the club
Then they can meet up, make some banners and the quote to the OP, engage in sexual intercourse amongst themselves[emoji23]
When did I say they were wrong? I said that is the spirit that saved the club: community and fan driven initiatives (similar to what he was advocating). It seems to be very much missing at the moment, the lack of atmosphere at the Amex, and the atmosphere on here at times, including this thread, being testament to that
I might just try the singing, if that's okay with everyone?
That cuts both ways though.To a certain extent [MENTION=30242]spence[/MENTION] is getting similar un warranted abuse for daring to have a differing opinion but he too is entitled to his opinions. I don't agree with some of his either but he has a point in some instances too.
I hate to see someone being pilloried for their beliefs - So long as your beliefs don't physically or emotionally harm others then they are fine in my book. I don't want to see anyone attacked the way that BG was so it is not the contestation of his ideas that I disagree with but more the language used to contest them.
Perhaps we should all be nicer in the way that we challenge people we disagree with. I tend to try and do it humorously but not everyone is the same.
And that’s all a good enough reason to be a d**k to him over a message board? (not you personally but certainly a few on here). Part of the success is attracting new fans, from all over the world, to me that is only a good thing. Unfortunately there are some who think only sitting through the rain at Gillingham and Withdean qualifies people for an opinion. At the end of the day, if you don’t want to be part of a fan club, don’t join it, but don’t knock someone for trying to support the club
Sitting in the rain at Withdean or trekking to Kent doesn't mean you are the only ones entitled to an opinion.
HOWEVER... Those two actions and many others are an integral aspect of the unique history of this club. From being one game from oblivion, homeless & (nearly) hopeless, we have, because of a number of individuals, a (mostly) supportive city, a certain politician, a local businessman and many others, made it to the other end of the football world. It has been long war and many of the fans (especially here on NSC) bear some very deep scars from the battles fought.
Coming on here, ignoring or ignorant of the history is just crass. Never stepping into the Amex and slagging off the atmosphere and those of us who sing our hearts out whatever the result is just plain rude.
Walk a mile in a man's shoes before you pass judgement on him.
Fans from home and abroad, young and old, rich or poor are all welcome at one of the most accepting and inviting clubs anywhere in the world. But before telling us how to fix all the things about our club, learn what the club is, who the fans are, what makes the city unique and why trekking to Kent or sitting on scaffolding seats in the rain is so so f**king important to so many people here.
I love CH and supported him up to and beyond his last minutes at the Albion.People on here know that I am friends with CH and support him 100% - I would be willing to bet that GP won't last as long at Brighton as Chris did.
When CH followed Paul Lambert into Norwich he was on a hiding to nothing because Lambert had taken them up two divisions and kept them in the PL.
By that time fans expectations were too high.
Sadly for GP . He has followed CH. The next rung of the ladder for Brighton is so difficult to reach. He won't achieve it I don't think. Yes play the players Dan Ashworth tells you to play. And play the type of football Dan Ashworth brought you in to play. But will it achieve what fans now want. I don't think it will. Look at what Man United did to Man City today And Brighton don't have half the talent that Man City have - So GP will be expendable because he is the one who will be held accountable for the Actons of DA and he won't last 5 years