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ROSM

Well-known member
Dec 26, 2005
6,776
Just far enough away from LDC
My 9 month old son has been unwell recently which has necessitated him having a stay in the Alex children's hospital. He is improving slowly but surely.

Today, the Albion players visited the hospital. It's one of those things that the club have done for many years and although we know it happens we get a bit blase to it. (the kind of thing that if the fat cats in the premiership got off their arses to do it would get 5 mins on match of the day as a 'superb community effort' but we just mist over when a league club does it).

This year, my wife saw the visit at first hand and this has really hammered home to me just how positive this visit is. Many of the kids there are very poorly and some are unlikley to get home for xmas. But this visit really does provide a boost to those patients, their families and also the hospital staff (who I cannot speak highly enough of).

It isn't a case of the players turning up, waving from the ward doors and then scarpering. They take time to talk to all the children they see, speak to the families and make everybody feel just that little bit special. For some players who have children this may come easily. For others it maybe doesn't. Joel Lynch was asked by my wife to hold my son for a photo. He confided that he'd 'never held a baby before' but still did it. Many of the younger players were asking questions about how things are going, were we likely to get our son home for xmas etc - not in a scripted patronising way, but in a proper well meant way.

Also a mention for Gary Hart who the last I'd heard was going on loan to havant and waterlooville (not been up with albion stuff the last couple of weeks while my sone has been unwell so not sure if that happened). He was there and was absolutely superb with all the children and really got involved.

Finally, a commendation for Gully. When the idea of bringing back a macot was first suggested, I really did cringe. However, he too was on the visit today and my son was laughing and smiling (something he's not done a lot of recently) when he had his photo with him - he has his bendy Gully in his cot at the hospital tonight and smiles every time he sees it. For that and that alone, I thank the club for bringing back Gully.

Today reinforces why I am proud to be an Albion fan and why my son will be too.
 






Eggmundo

U & I R listening to KAOS
Jul 8, 2003
3,466
Good post ROSM, wish you and the family all the very best. Keep the faith as Micky would say, everything will be fine.
 


Monsieur Leclerc

Café Rene. In disguise!
Apr 24, 2006
554
:cry: That is beautiful. I must say, it never really occurred to me that it was a big deal. I know most clubs do this sort of thing, but I feel we are truly blessed with a great bunch of players. I dearly hope that your son is able to fulfill yours and his dreams. I suggest that you write a similar thing to the club. God bless the Albion.
 


Chicken Run

Member Since Jul 2003
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Jul 17, 2003
19,813
Valley of Hangleton
My 9 month old son has been unwell recently which has necessitated him having a stay in the Alex children's hospital. He is improving slowly but surely.

Today, the Albion players visited the hospital. It's one of those things that the club have done for many years and although we know it happens we get a bit blase to it. (the kind of thing that if the fat cats in the premiership got off their arses to do it would get 5 mins on match of the day as a 'superb community effort' but we just mist over when a league club does it).

This year, my wife saw the visit at first hand and this has really hammered home to me just how positive this visit is. Many of the kids there are very poorly and some are unlikley to get home for xmas. But this visit really does provide a boost to those patients, their families and also the hospital staff (who I cannot speak highly enough of).

It isn't a case of the players turning up, waving from the ward doors and then scarpering. They take time to talk to all the children they see, speak to the families and make everybody feel just that little bit special. For some players who have children this may come easily. For others it maybe doesn't. Joel Lynch was asked by my wife to hold my son for a photo. He confided that he'd 'never held a baby before' but still did it. Many of the younger players were asking questions about how things are going, were we likely to get our son home for xmas etc - not in a scripted patronising way, but in a proper well meant way.

Also a mention for Gary Hart who the last I'd heard was going on loan to havant and waterlooville (not been up with albion stuff the last couple of weeks while my sone has been unwell so not sure if that happened). He was there and was absolutely superb with all the children and really got involved.

Finally, a commendation for Gully. When the idea of bringing back a macot was first suggested, I really did cringe. However, he too was on the visit today and my son was laughing and smiling (something he's not done a lot of recently) when he had his photo with him - he has his bendy Gully in his cot at the hospital tonight and smiles every time he sees it. For that and that alone, I thank the club for bringing back Gully.

Today reinforces why I am proud to be an Albion fan and why my son will be too.
Well done you and your family for being upbeat and to the lads for their support happy christmas and good luck for the new year i have three children and cant imagine what you must be going thru xx
 




ROSM

Well-known member
Dec 26, 2005
6,776
Just far enough away from LDC
Thanks all - our son is improving. he had a tummy bug that laid him so low (and despite being taken to the GP 4 times in a week as we were concerned how run down he was getting) he has picked up pneumonia and ear infections. He is improving but it is a slow process getting over all the bugs with intra venous antibiotics and fluids, plus pain relief and stuff to keep his temperature down. We hope that he will be home for xmas and he is improving although it is a two steps forward one back thing. We are relatively lucky compared to some of the children in the hospital and we do realise that.
 


Bozza

You can change this
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Jul 4, 2003
57,299
Back in Sussex
Mads was poorly in hospital when she was about 6 weeks old and had to have an operation under full anaesthetic. As great as the wonderful staff are, camped out in a childrens' hospital day and night is not where parents would choose to be.

A great tale and it truly brings home the value of the Albion's work in the community at large and how far their touch can spread.

Good luck with the little one over the coming days and all being well you'll be getting to enjoy your first Christmas together at home.
 


Beach Hut

Brighton Bhuna Boy
Jul 5, 2003
72,323
Living In a Box
Pneumonia is not good, Mini had that and spent 3 nights at Southlands but there is hope as he is a strong lad and now a committed BHAFC supporter and ASC Striker U10 player so as said previous keep the faith.

Well done to the players for enlightening other younger less fortunate peoples lives.
 




Jul 5, 2003
12,644
Chertsey
Mads was poorly in hospital when she was about 6 weeks old and had to have an operation under full anaesthetic. As great as the wonderful staff are, camped out in a childrens' hospital day and night is not where parents would choose to be..

I had an operation when I was 2 days old, I can't imagine how bad that must have been for my parents. Definitely not where parents would choose to be.
 


Monsieur Leclerc

Café Rene. In disguise!
Apr 24, 2006
554
ROSM, without sounding presumptious, I hope you have let the team/staff/club how much it meant to you and your son. Even though I am not directly involved, it makes me proud to be an albion fan. Good luck with the rest of your sons recuperation.
 


Yorkie

Sussex born and bred
Jul 5, 2003
32,367
dahn sarf
Adrian I hope your son picks up very soon and gets home as soon as possible.

The players and the club are very good at stuff like this. Well done to them.
 




Gwylan

Well-known member
Jul 5, 2003
31,830
Uffern
That's a heart-warming story. All the best for your little one and hope he's home soon.

And well done to the club and the players.
 


Couldn't Be Hyypia

We've come a long long way together
NSC Patron
Nov 12, 2006
16,730
Near Dorchester, Dorset
Well done the Albion. I recall Gary Hart at one of the "fun day " matches at Crowborough - my son, who was about 8 at the time was totally enamored with him - and still is a big Gary Hart fan...as am I.

Hope your son recovers very soon - have the best Christmas you can. One aided by Brighton picking up maximum points perhaps!
 


Superphil

Dismember
Jul 7, 2003
25,679
In a pile of football shirts
ROSM, all the very best to you and your boy. Have the best Christmas you can, here's hoping your son will be with you at home.
 






The Large One

Who's Next?
Jul 7, 2003
52,343
97.2FM
That's good to know that, in these cynical times, there is decency, care and geniune concern for others out there from unlikely sources. I'm glad that you, Clare and junior were able to cheer yourselves up on the back of this good deed the club did for you.

Wishing you and yours better health next year, Adrian...
 


Icy Gull

Back on the rollercoaster
Jul 5, 2003
72,015
I have been through what you are going through and having my daughter born 2 months prematurely and undergoing two life saving operations before she should even have been born I am happy to say that the little 28oz baby is now a 22 year old who owes her life to the Royal Alex staff and doctors. I cannot speak highly enough of them. Sincerely hope all continues to improve for your family.
 
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Hiney

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Jul 5, 2003
19,396
Penrose, Cornwall
Having your children get ill is one of the worst things. They are so helpless and you rely on everyone around you to help them get through it.

The work that footballers do away from the Training Ground often gets missed and the tabloids (shamefully) seem to ignore this side of things, knowing that 'Premiership Footballer in spit-roast shame' will sell more newspapers than 'Premiership Footballer gives up his own time to help families through a difficult time' headlines

I hope your boy can come home for Christmas ROSM

:thumbsup:
 




hans kraay fan club

The voice of reason.
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Mar 16, 2005
62,763
Chandlers Ford
Fair brings a tear to the eye. Great stuff, the club.

[Awaits snidey comments from the usual TOSSERS suggesting that while SOME of the players did their bit, El-Abd was seen sticking his fingers up at the patients, Alex Revell was running around everywhere unsure what to do, and Dean Cox was demanding that an elderly lady give up her seat for him, asking 'Do you know who I am']
 


Mrs Coach

aka Jesus H. Woman
Fair brings a tear to the eye. Great stuff, the club.

[Awaits snidey comments from the usual TOSSERS suggesting that while SOME of the players did their bit, El-Abd was seen sticking his fingers up at the patients, Alex Revell was running around everywhere unsure what to do, and Dean Cox was demanding that an elderly lady give up her seat for him, asking 'Do you know who I am']

That made me smile! I was in the same situation with my son three years ago, and same comments from ROSM (hope you're little one is mended very very soon xx) about the players being genuinely interested applies. Danny Cullip and Alexis Nicholas were especially nice to him and it's a smashing thing for the players to do. I know some of them got quite emotional when they visited a little one across the hall from little coach. It was a little girl who had undergone gruelling cancer treatment and was completely bald. Her smile and laughter with the players actually had some of them in tears. Bless her heart and well done the Players xx
 


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