I've got a new partner
became a parent - twice
gone on holiday out of Europe and in Europe (missed that one on the poll)
had a major operation
a family bereavement
and tried drugs (missed that one on the poll too).
Plenty of other things have happened too which aren't on the poll.
11 years...
How old is your son? - sorry, just noticed in another post.
If you don't mind me asking.
Not sure when the right age is to tell them, my daughter is 6 but that's too young IMO.