Where does the Reform party find these people..... ?
BBC News - Reform UK candidate apologises over Hitler neutrality comments
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cjmmrwexv4ko
I once played against a team with a bowler who (rumour had it) used to play for Barbados second team. Not over quick but bowled massive in-swingers.
I also played against a London team called "Caribbean and Commonwealth" whose fourth change bowler was significantly quicker than their openers...
You might also want to apply for Personal Independence Payments. They are not means tested, and unlike carer allowances you are less likely to go to prison.
Regarding care homes. You need to see the home and be able to look past the decor to the level and standard of care offered. If I had had to chose one, I wouldn't have chosen the one my wife is in based on a 4 year old out of date CQC report (which wasn't very good then), and the fact it looks...
You might be lucky that your mum only has an infection, but until you are sure I suspect you might have to insist that she wouldn't be safe if she was discharged to home until she is completely recovered from everything if your aunt couldn't cope with her. Caring for someone 24/7 alone will...
Have you been in touch with social services, and has your mother had a dementia test as this doesn't sound good. Do you or someone else have a power of attorney over her affairs as without one you may have problems.
My wife has severe early onset dementia. In January I cracked, called social...