I gave this post a like and then retracted it and then reinstated it. I agree completely with what you've said, but can't wish death on someone. Sorry
Apology accepted
I gave this post a like and then retracted it and then reinstated it. I agree completely with what you've said, but can't wish death on someone. Sorry
Totally agree in every way!Agree.
Apart from the illegality and moral depravity, I've never understood how any man could enjoy sex with a woman who wasn't: a) consenting and willingly participating b) enjoying the act herself.
mmmm....All horrible and dreadful stuff but I don’t understand why she hung around for so long - she must have known what was going on at some stage.
I’m not digging you out, apologies if it seems as such. But your post raises some important questions.All horrible and dreadful stuff but I don’t understand why she hung around for so long - she must have known what was going on at some stage.
All horrible and dreadful stuff but I don’t understand why she hung around for so long - she must have known what was going on at some stage.
It might be after every day in prison his arsehole is turned into a chewed orange by ‘mr big’20 years is not long enough for this scum.
Also in France rape is only rape if the victim says NO. She is a remarkable woman. I hope she gets some privacy now and care from her family.Totally agree in every way!
but what a woman. So much has been said about her waiving her anonymity, but I didn‘t really twig that, without that, the whole trial would have been carried out behind closed doors and none of it would have come out.
Victoria Derbyshire on Newsnight a couple of weeks ago had a 20 minute conversation with her lawyer, who described the torment she had gone through while realising what had been happening to her, and the strength of her determination to do things right. Incredible woman.
That is f***ing insane!!Also in France rape is only rape if the victim says NO. She is a remarkable woman. I hope she gets some privacy now and care from her family.
I know that now taBecause she didn’t know.
No I poorly worded my reply before ai knew the facts…. I do that from time to time.Why must she? So you're suggesting that she knew what was going on, but decided to stay and allow it to keep happening. That's really quite breath-taking.
I think you touched on a good point though, which is basically how bloody hard the whole thing is to understand. Mind boggling.No I poorly worded my reply before ai knew the facts…. I do that from time to time.
Best not to reply before you know the facts, especially on very sensitive subjects.No I poorly worded my reply before ai knew the facts…. I do that from time to time.
She enjoyed it and wanted it to carry on was never in my mind.. It’s madnessI’m not digging you out, apologies if it seems as such. But your post raises some important questions.
It’s useful to follow these notions through to their conclusion.
“she must have known what was going at some point”
Which leads to the question;
“why didn’t she stop it”?
Only two real answers to that question;
He was controlling and she didn’t have an opportunity to get help or stop it for fear of what he might do.
She enjoyed it and wanted it to carry on.
I don’t think the defence used either of those arguments. They were ruled out early on.
So the only viable answer is that she did not know. And evidence bears this out.
A horrible case and an incredible woman
Yes, there is currently a lack of provision for consent in the legal definition of rape in France and it is only defined as penetration by violence, coercion or threat, none of which were used in the Pelicot case, as they didn't need to be given she was unconscious. It might explain why some of the sentences are so short.Also in France rape is only rape if the victim says NO. She is a remarkable woman. I hope she gets some privacy now and care from her family.
Double bollocks. She never said no to at least 50 rapists sentenced in a French Court and has garnered great support by going public.Also in France rape is only rape if the victim says NO. She is a remarkable woman. I hope she gets some privacy now and care from her family.
I read about her decision to go public. I understand her reasons, totally, it made sense, but it still took a lot of bravery.Totally agree in every way!
but what a woman. So much has been said about her waiving her anonymity, but I didn‘t really twig that, without that, the whole trial would have been carried out behind closed doors and none of it would have come out.
Victoria Derbyshire on Newsnight a couple of weeks ago had a 20 minute conversation with her lawyer, who described the torment she had gone through while realising what had been happening to her, and the strength of her determination to do things right. Incredible woman.