What he’s allegedly done sounds horrific, but I’m a bit uncomfortable with Harrods (and de facto the current owners who are clearly horrified) being the ‘target’ as a corporate entity. Depends on the extent to which it was aided/abetted I guess.
….and told ‘we know where you live, we know where your family live’………Threats? Coercion?
One victim was told she’d never get another job in London if she said anything.
I guess it’s a lot tougher for stories to gain traction when the accused is still alive to litigate the accusers into financial oblivion. A sad state of affairs but, as always, money talks.And known about and reported about for years.
It's funny how these stories failed to stick.
‘Rot in Hell’ should do it.Can someone change the thread title as nobody wants him to RIP.
Would you have gone back to a place of work if you’d been raped? I get not saying anything but I don’t get why you’d ever go back/not quit. Some of these women were there for bloody years!Threats? Coercion?
One victim was told she’d never get another job in London if she said anything.
You will withdraw your comparison to TB though I hopeI've been waiting for this thread or similar to come up. I've not seen the documentary but have read the reports, including that the manager of the Fulham women's team (first professional one in the UK) were shielded from him. It'll be interesting to hear the views of the people who sit around me today and thank God we'll stop singing about him.
In my first post, I said he was divisive. He was also patently manipulative and by all accounts a despicable pervert and criminal. I only hope that that kind of behaviour could not be hushed up / ignored in any organisation these days.
But I'm not going to stop supporting Fulham or being thankful that he invested in us to get us into the Premier League.
I can’t answer that because I’ve never been in that situation but like the vast majority of women, I have been sexually assaulted in the past. In most places of work, you learned to shut up, and just get on with it, because it happened in most places.Would you have gone back to a place of work if you’d been raped? I get not saying anything but I don’t get why you’d ever go back/not quit. Some of these women were there for bloody years!
Guy leading this indicated his distain for Harrods statement yesterday & strongly indicated collusion & that they were going after othersWhat he’s allegedly done sounds horrific, but I’m a bit uncomfortable with Harrods (and de facto the current owners who are clearly horrified) being the ‘target’ as a corporate entity. Depends on the extent to which it was aided/abetted I guess.
I wholeheartedly agree with your sentiments and sympathise completely. However is it true that the vast majority of women are sexually assaulted?I can’t answer that because I’ve never been in that situation but like the vast majority of women, I have been sexually assaulted in the past. In most places of work, you learned to shut up, and just get on with it, because it happened in most places.
Add in threats of knowing where your family lived, influence with other rich men, loss of reputation, I can empathise with those women who stayed.
A sexual offender’s most often used phrase - nobody will believe you.
Yes.I wholeheartedly agree with your sentiments and sympathise completely. However is it true that the vast majority of women are sexually assaulted?
How is anyone meant to answer that?Would you have gone back to a place of work if you’d been raped?
Well I wouldn't dismiss it. Some of those behaviours have happened to me from women and they made me feel uncomfortable. Except by invitation, a person's body is theirs and theirs only. It is good to understand what amounts to an assault. Thanks.Yes.
It might be a pat on the bum, or getting your skirt lifted (hence why many girls wear trousers now) ranging to more obvious groping etc, but it has happened to the vast majority of women.
And laughed off as a ‘joke’.
I’m no feminist but times have changed and women shouldn’t have to keep quiet and just accept it.
You had the right to report them too, but most men wouldn’t.Well I wouldn't dismiss it. Some of those behaviours have happened to me from women and they made me feel uncomfortable. Except by invitation, a person's body is theirs and theirs only. It is good to understand what amounts to an assault. Thanks.
I wonder how many of them did though, I struggle to think that they all didHow is anyone meant to answer that?
People did go back there to work so clearly it's not as simple as you're making out.
To be honest, on one occasion I almost did. It was at a former workplace. I went away and it kept running through my mind. Now, many years after I think I should have confronted the person and told her it was not okay and left it at that. It was relatively minor but still way over something a decent minded person would do.You had the right to report them too, but most men wouldn’t.
yes.I wholeheartedly agree with your sentiments and sympathise completely. However is it true that the vast majority of women are sexually assaulted?
IdiotWould you have gone back to a place of work if you’d been raped? I get not saying anything but I don’t get why you’d ever go back/not quit. Some of these women were there for bloody years!