[Misc] Sorry for the indulgence

Dave the OAP · Sep 9, 2024

Today we said goodbye to our gorgeous Sophie. She had a mastectomy 2 years ago and wasn’t expected to last more than a few weeks.

we had the hardest decision to let her go as her tumours had returned and this weekend she was in a bad way?

you have pets for a short time, but she really was a beautiful mischievous loving cat and I will miss her terribly. Saying goodbye whilst she passed away was the hardest thing I have done for years.
I am absolutely shattered at the moment

seagullwedgee · Sep 9, 2024

I am so sorry for your loss. I’m sure there are hundreds on here who feel your pain, and send supportive good wishes. Cherish the beautiful memories, you were clearly very good to your beautiful pet. Stay strong.

Baldseagull · Sep 9, 2024

Publius Ovidius said:
Today we said goodbye to our gorgeous Sophie. She had a mastectomy 2 years ago and wasn’t expected to last more than a few weeks.

we had the hardest decision to let her go as her tumours had returned and this weekend she was in a bad way?

you have pets for a short time, but she really was a beautiful mischievous loving cat and I will miss her terribly. Saying goodbye whilst she passed away was the hardest thing I have done for years.
I am absolutely shattered at the moment
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It's a hard thing to do, but the kindest thing to do.

Insel affe · Sep 9, 2024

Sorry for your loss, she sure looked like a beautiful cat, they are precious aren't they cats.

chickens · Sep 9, 2024

No apology required, they become family, and I don’t doubt the loss is deeply felt.

Best wishes to you and yours, remember the good times.

Beanstalk · Sep 9, 2024

Publius Ovidius said:
Today we said goodbye to our gorgeous Sophie. She had a mastectomy 2 years ago and wasn’t expected to last more than a few weeks.

we had the hardest decision to let her go as her tumours had returned and this weekend she was in a bad way?

you have pets for a short time, but she really was a beautiful mischievous loving cat and I will miss her terribly. Saying goodbye whilst she passed away was the hardest thing I have done for years.
I am absolutely shattered at the moment
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We lost our cat very suddenly at the start of the year and it devastated us - I don't think we'll ever truly be over it.

Completely understand how you're feeling. Look after yourself and remember you're allowed to feel shattered by it amongst all the other emotions. For me and my partner, we went on lots of walks and made sure we were doing things however small. And don't feel like you can't talk about her with the people you shared her with, however hard; they're the ones who get what you're feeling. Gorgeous photo of Sophie

Thunder Bolt · Sep 9, 2024

Pets, dogs and cats, add so much to our lives, and it’s painful when they die. Be comforted that you gave her a good loving home, and your love was reciprocated.

Sid and the Sharknados · Sep 9, 2024

Publius Ovidius said:
Today we said goodbye to our gorgeous Sophie. She had a mastectomy 2 years ago and wasn’t expected to last more than a few weeks.

we had the hardest decision to let her go as her tumours had returned and this weekend she was in a bad way?

you have pets for a short time, but she really was a beautiful mischievous loving cat and I will miss her terribly. Saying goodbye whilst she passed away was the hardest thing I have done for years.
I am absolutely shattered at the moment
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She looks a lovely cat, sorry for your loss.

GJN1 · Sep 9, 2024

Publius Ovidius said:
Today we said goodbye to our gorgeous Sophie. She had a mastectomy 2 years ago and wasn’t expected to last more than a few weeks.

we had the hardest decision to let her go as her tumours had returned and this weekend she was in a bad way?

you have pets for a short time, but she really was a beautiful mischievous loving cat and I will miss her terribly. Saying goodbye whilst she passed away was the hardest thing I have done for years.
I am absolutely shattered at the moment
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Sorry for your loss. I've been there with our old cat. For whatever reason, it seems harder than when a human family member passes, or at least it was for me. I have a 13 year-old dog, Nell, who is suddenly slower and less energetic, and I'm dreading the day when her time comes. Hope you're ok.

Grassman · Sep 9, 2024

I still miss my ginger tom ’Crumplin’, he was run over by a bloody ambulance over 20 years ago. His name probably ages him!

Bald Head · Sep 9, 2024

Had to have our rescue cat put to sleep a couple of years ago, we only had her for a few months, i cried my eyes out for weeks. We had her cremated and she's with us in a lovely oak box in our lounge, yes it hurts.

Thunder Bolt · Sep 9, 2024

Bald Head said:
Had to have our rescue cat put to sleep a couple of years ago, we only had her for a few months, i cried my eyes out for weeks. We had her cremated and she's with us in a lovely oak box in our lounge, yes it hurts.

We have the ashes of three cats in our garden with various plants, which are all growing well.

Weststander · Sep 9, 2024

So sorry @Publius Ovidius . Sophie's beautiful and looks incredibly well cared for.

I adore cats, I've stinging eyes reading your OP.

Seagull on the Hill · Sep 9, 2024

So sorry to hear that Dave.
Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is absolutely heartbreaking.

Withdean South Stand · Sep 9, 2024

What a beautiful cat, I'm glad she was loved and had a good life in your home. I need to collect some ashes later for my cat who died suddenly and unexpectedly, she hadn't been unwell at all but all of a sudden couldn't breathe and passed away. It is such a devastating loss.

bluenitsuj · Sep 9, 2024

Totally understand your pain. Lost my Golden Retriever, Megan, 18 months ago. It broke me. We had to make the decision as she was very poorly. I feel for you. It's bloody awful.

One Teddy Maybank · Sep 9, 2024

So sorry @Publius Ovidius

Shropshire Seagull · Sep 9, 2024

RIP Sophie
Gone to chase mice/birds in the sky and sleep on God's sofa

Pets ARE family - I feel your loss ...

Peacehaven Wild Kids · Sep 9, 2024

Thunder Bolt said:
Pets, dogs and cats, add so much to our lives, and it’s painful when they die. Be comforted that you gave her a good loving home, and your love was reciprocated.

I was struggling with the words so if I may just second this.
People that don’t have pets often “don’t get it”.
others like us certainly do.

AmexRuislip · Sep 9, 2024

Publius Ovidius said:
Today we said goodbye to our gorgeous Sophie. She had a mastectomy 2 years ago and wasn’t expected to last more than a few weeks.

we had the hardest decision to let her go as her tumours had returned and this weekend she was in a bad way?

you have pets for a short time, but she really was a beautiful mischievous loving cat and I will miss her terribly. Saying goodbye whilst she passed away was the hardest thing I have done for years.
I am absolutely shattered at the moment
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Sorry for your loss.
Pets, especially cats become a welcome addition to the family.
Each have their own personalities which is brilliant.
They'll always be our memories and you can be reminded of them anytime, where you can have a quiet chuckle moment to yourself.

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