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Uncle Spielberg

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Jul 6, 2003
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Beach Hut

Brighton Bhuna Boy
Jul 5, 2003
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Living In a Box
I think we know where this thread is going - NSC Gold
 


Uncle Spielberg

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Jul 6, 2003
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I'm quite calm BH. Just making some points that's all.
 








Falkor

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Jun 3, 2011
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Im really not sure why US gets a hard time, he has problems but people seem to pray on them its pretty sad really, not nice for him at all i think, he probs comes on here as he feels many are his friends and im sure there are many, but a select view seem to see him as easy bate and have a constant go. Sad stuff really.
 








Chesney Christ

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Sep 3, 2003
4,301
Location, Location
I think this line of thinking is responsible for a lot of the flounces.....

http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2009/10/09/how-to-break-out-of-a-victim-mentality-7-powerful-tips/

Not directing at anyone in particular, although needless-to-say people will pick up on it and see it as being about themselves (oh the irony!).

I speak from experience, as my ex-girlfriend had a HUGE "I'm a victim" complex. It is then very easy to find numerous example from one's life to prove the old "My life's been awful" theory.
 




Chesney Christ

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Sep 3, 2003
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“If it’s never our fault, we can’t take responsibility for it. If we can’t take responsibility for it, we’ll always be its victim.”
Richard Bach

“Self-pity is easily the most destructive of the nonpharmaceutical narcotics; it is addictive, gives momentary pleasure and separates the victim from reality.”
John W. Gardner
 


SK1NT

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Sep 9, 2003
8,760
Thames Ditton
@UncleSpielberg ignore the insults and the idiots... Im sure a lot of the sad fuckers just come on here to entertain themselves from their own miserable existance...

I don't like internet bullying... do it face to face at least... It seems it is human nature to always be attacking someone :nono:
 










Uncle Spielberg

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Jul 6, 2003
43,039
Lancing
Im really not sure why US gets a hard time, he has problems but people seem to pray on them its pretty sad really, not nice for him at all i think, he probs comes on here as he feels many are his friends and im sure there are many, but a select view seem to see him as easy bate and have a constant go. Sad stuff really.

I would advise people not to live their life through a forum as it give's people who want to an open goal of you display any kind of vunerability. A self fulfilling " Truman Show " scenario. I am on occassions the architect of my own downfall due to some public meltdowns on here in the past. If abuse comes along I try and stand my ground but it just seems to make it worse. Until I am in a better place and in a better frame of mind my thin skin will get me into trouble on here but this site is addictive. I try to post some interesting stuff and the £ 152 000 utility bill was an example of that as you don't get a bill for that amount everyday. So in short I have to accept I bring some of it on myself but thanks for the support.
 


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