How to get your ex girlfreind back?

[kevtherev]

100% this. If I've learn't anything in my 55 years it's that respect is everything. a meaningless shag shows no respect for himself, the ex gf or the meaningless girl.

But it does blow the pipes out and it's better than a wank.

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

100% this. If I've learn't anything in my 55 years it's that respect is everything. a meaningless shag shows no respect for himself, the ex gf or the meaningless girl.

I think we are older so we have been there and done that and can only pass on our advice. I agree 100% with what you say. Let the OP go and bang someone and post on here how he feels. Anyone under 30 cannot see it. Still if that makes me a drip as apparently I am . I am a drip. LOL

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

But it does blow the pipes out and it's better than a wank.

It is not better than a wank imo. When feelings are involved it is not going to help the guy.

 

[kevtherev]

100% this. If I've learn't anything in my 55 years it's that respect is everything. a meaningless shag shows no respect for himself, the ex gf or the meaningless girl.

In my 41 years can't agree with any of this..Why would you want to show respect for the ex gf?..She has dumped you as as most people know a girl does not end a relationship unless she has another one to go to, nine times out of ten, so she is getting screwed anyway. Why would you want to respect the meaningless girl?.The last thing you want is another relationship anyway. And as for self respect, everyone knows a standing cock has no conscious.

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

In my 41 years can't agree with any of this..Why would you want to show respect for the ex gf?..She has dumped you as as most people know a girl does not end a relationship unless she has another one to go to, nine times out of ten, so she is getting screwed anyway. Why would you want to respect the meaningless girl?.The last thing you want is another relationship anyway. And as for self respect, everyone knows a standing cock has no conscious.

So you are happy treating people like shit for your own ends ?

 

[nwgull]

Still you know it all. No doubt you have a queue of hotties rushing to your door.

I may not know it all, but I acted the nice guy in my first long term relationship and got shat on by a woman. Rather than moan about it, I learned from my mistakes and have not been dumped since. For what it's worth I have had a few hotties - all have been way fitter than the ex who dumped me - and most importantly, they've worshiped the ground I walk on. I must be doing something right.

 

[OSRGull]

Thanks for the support, cant believe I've lost the plot so much over this.

I've done the cardinal sin and text her asking her how she is and thats all.

Got no reply as of yet.

Don't do any chasing, give her time and space, let her make the first bit of contact to you. It is hard I know but just enjoy yourself whilst you can, I know she obviously means a hell a lot to you but go out there, have fun, do what makes you happy, if she comes back then do what ever you feels best.

Being friends after breaking us is like getting kicked in the bollocks then someone saying I hope that didn't hurt.

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

I may not know it all, but I acted the nice guy in my first long term relationship and got shat on by a woman. Rather than moan about it, I learned from my mistakes and have not been dumped since. For what it's worth I have had a few hotties - all have been way fitter than the ex who dumped me - and most importantly, they've worshiped the ground I walk on. I must be doing something right.

Go you. Well done.

 

[kevtherev]

So you are happy treating people like shit for your own ends ?

As opposed to the girl you have just meet and is shagging you for her own ends you mean?.....f*** yes...For the record, I am in a long term relationship and am very happy, but if I was single its all fair game. Do you think it's only guys who treat girls like shit for there own ends?..I can assure you there are plenty of women, single and attached that are screwing around everyday of the week while there old man is working or sitting at home with the kids.

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

As opposed to the girl you have just meet and is shagging you for her own ends you mean?.....f*** yes...For the record, I am in a long term relationship and am very happy, but if I was single its all fair game. Do you think it's only guys who treat girls like shit for there own ends?..I can assure you there are plenty of women, single and attached that are screwing around everyday of the week while there old man is working or sitting at home with the kids.

The girl I have just met ?

 

[Kent Seagull]

In my 41 years can't agree with any of this..Why would you want to show respect for the ex gf?..She has dumped you as as most people know a girl does not end a relationship unless she has another one to go to, nine times out of ten, so she is getting screwed anyway. Why would you want to respect the meaningless girl?.The last thing you want is another relationship anyway. And as for self respect, everyone knows a standing cock has no conscious.

I would say that if he wants the girl back respect is pretty important!

 

[kevtherev]

The girl I have just met ?

Refering to meeting someone for meaningless sex....it works both ways you know. Who is treating who like shit?..The man or the woman?.I say neither, it's a means to an end for both parties.

 

[kevtherev]

I'd like to know how old the OP is and what life experience he has.

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

Refering to meeting someone for meaningless sex....it works both ways you know. Who is treating who like shit?..The man or the woman?.I say neither, it's a means to an end for both parties.

Ok but all pretty f***ing shallow imo.

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

I'd like to know how old the OP is and what life experience he has.

22.

 

[kevtherev]

22.

Enough said, not that i'm belittling his age, but I suspect he has a lot to learn and is only starting out. This will be a good life experience, probably one of many.

 

[kevtherev]

Ok but all pretty f***ing shallow imo.

Beats sitting indoors staring at the phone that never rings, with one hand on your cock and the other holding the remote.

 

[nwgull]

Beats sitting indoors staring at the phone that never rings, with one hand on your cock and the other holding the remote.

Most definitely this. Someone whose sexual satisfaction comes via youporn and their right hand is going to have serious self esteem issues. Nothing helps your confidence like a bird who has physical attraction for you and is hungry to be taken by you in an almost primal way.

If you've ever pulled a birds hair with one hand while spanking her arse hard with the other during doggy sex, you'll know what I'm talking about.

 

[kevtherev]

Most definitely this. Someone whose sexual satisfaction comes via youporn and their right hand is going to have serious self esteem issues. Nothing helps your confidence like a bird who has physical attraction for you and is hungry to be taken by you in an almost primal way.

If you've ever pulled a birds hair with one hand while spanking her arse hard with the other during doggy sex, you'll know what I'm talking about.

Your forgetting to stick a finger up her arse at the same time....pmsl.....thats another lesson for some on here. Women love to be treated like sluts in the bedroom, even the nice ones(unless it my ex wife,,,hence the word ex lol).

 

[nwgull]

Your forgetting to stick a finger up her arse at the same time....pmsl.....

WTF! How many hands do you think I have?! But yes, even the nicest good girl type women love to be chucked about the bedroom and generally dominated more regularly than they want to 'make love'.