kevtherev
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Depends how long her hair is, you could combine the two. Kill two birds with one stone as it were lol.
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How to get your ex girlfreind back?
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Depends how long her hair is, you could combine the two. Kill two birds with one stone as it were lol.
Willy Dangle
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Simples.....just take her up the amex when she's not expecting it. She will either love it or hate it.
SeagullSongs
And it's all gone quiet..
Euphemism?
driller
my life my word
Post the naked pictures you have of her on your phone on here....
Revenge is oh so Sweet
( my girlfriend was a porn star and she went ballistic when she found out!!!)
Revenge is oh so Sweet
( my girlfriend was a porn star and she went ballistic when she found out!!!)
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None of this really matters now as I text and got the crumbs reply everyone was saying I would. Then I text back but got no reply, so what did I do,.........I called her.
I know everyone said leave it, give her space, time etc but it's just not in me to do that and deep down I'd rather know either way than keep pissing about and ignoring her in the desperate attempt she misses me and comes round.
We had a 15 min chat in which she was polite and freindly but stuck to her guns and was still totally switched off to me, the arguments have happened too much and therefore she wants out.
I know it's total madness & ignores whats been said but Milan as freinds and then work on something maybe the only card I have left.
I know everyone said leave it, give her space, time etc but it's just not in me to do that and deep down I'd rather know either way than keep pissing about and ignoring her in the desperate attempt she misses me and comes round.
We had a 15 min chat in which she was polite and freindly but stuck to her guns and was still totally switched off to me, the arguments have happened too much and therefore she wants out.
I know it's total madness & ignores whats been said but Milan as freinds and then work on something maybe the only card I have left.
kevtherev
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If there was any chance at all, quite frankly you've just blown it....Your young enough to get over this pretty quick. Get up, get dressed and get out and on with your life. Nobody likes a sulky fucker and it's not attractive....
n1 gull
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can't disagree with anything you've said there fella - nail on head.
Uncle Spielberg
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Schoolboy error mate but all the advice in the world will not stop someone doing what they feel they need to. It was the classic " polite but indifferent ". She has moved on mate, the worse thing you can have is indifference. Even hate is better as that is an emotion. PLEASE do not go to Milan with her and then try and be a " friend ". It will kill you. You have the closure now. NEVER contact her again. To be brutal she checked out of this relationship a few weeks/even months ago. The dumper moves away emotionally during that time, apart from a few red flags and when they dump they are already over it, most likely with the new guy lined up. To you it is a huge shock, to her it is the end of the long process. It's finished, done and dusted. Go to Milan with a friend. A perfect opportunity to get away and get your head together.
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kevtherev
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She has moved on.Wake up and smell the coffee, she doesnt even want a freebie in Milan..Do I really need to state the obvious to you....
Dorset Seagull
Once Dolphin, Now Seagull
This is the best advice you will get fella. Milan needs to be the start of the new re- energised you. Don't even consider taking her to Milan as you will just prolong the inevitable and be going back to square one on the emotions front. Each day will get a little easier but that will all be lost if you slip back at any point
The Spanish
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i would f*** milan off totally and go to thailand. that will send her garrity.
there are literally billions of birds in the world mate she is f***ing you about just f*** her off out of it.
there are literally billions of birds in the world mate she is f***ing you about just f*** her off out of it.
Uncle Spielberg
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I don't think she is f***ing him about. She has ended it with him. He is the one dragging it out to be honest.
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Dorset Seagull
Once Dolphin, Now Seagull
I don't think you really understand where his head is at the moment
Uncle Spielberg
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This. Also I don't think she would care if he went to Thailand.
The Spanish
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au contraire
problem is thats where his head is likely to stay for far longer following some of the gentler more compassionate advice
sorry but its true - it doesnt mean you are a bastard if you say try and forget it rather than drag out the agony.
if you keep rubbing a wound it will leave a scar.
Uncle Spielberg
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I think the difference in opinion is some people seem to think that by shagging some random slag all his problems and heartache will magically disappear.
Dorset Seagull
Once Dolphin, Now Seagull
And I suspect that is the last thing on his mind at the moment
The Spanish
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and they would be right
great thread this - I'm 100% on the side of cruel to be kind here - anyone whose actually faced this and been honest and no deluded with themselves, knows full well when its over its over and even if got back together again, it will be for the completely wrong reasons or just because it is easier until something better comes along...and here that means until the x finds a new boyfriend at which time you'll get cut out in a second!....take the pain now, forget out her needs and focus solely on your own ones....time to move on, get some interests to distract (and if that's a casual partner (s), all the better, it makes you realize there's more than one person out there, and it will not be long before a better model appears and the x becomes 'who, what the f*** did I ever seen in her'?......good luck.